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Dan, I don't think hetero members of the media, evebn gay-friendly ones, find the idea of gay folks supporting Frothy Mix's anti-gay stances as ridiculous as we do. They just go, "OK"
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You tell 'em, Dan. You fuckin' tell 'em!
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"Hey, I can't be a bigot, I have (race I'm complaining about) friends."
That's such an old meme, I'm surprised the Santorums (Santorii?) don't realize they're using it. Then again, the recent sload of GOP candidates don't seem to have much ability to see that sort of thing, or think critically about themselves.
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Because you're a journalist, not a stenographer.
EXACTLY.

But the sad fact is that such claims are accepted at face value, no proof required.

P.S.
You broke me with that video clip.
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Kick ass.

Too bad this is going to stir up Seattleblues and the anonymous troll (make registration mandatory already - all arguments for allowing unregistered comments have long been disproven.)
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'osteen', not 'ornstein'. he ain't jewish.
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well said Dan. I wish I could articulate my thoughts as well as you.
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Also, 100 comments minimum by lunchtime, if not 10 am.
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I wonder if they do exist, those gay friends who support her daddy...are they in danger if being accused of self-loathing? Are they gay and wish they weren't? Are they doing their best to "atone" for being gay? Is there any logical way they could exist?

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I wish the Santorum family would all just grow up.
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I worked on this video and associated campaign for the Courage Campaign. Even though I saw th video at least 100 times while editing it, it still gets to me. Ed and Derence were an amazing couple, I was so sad to hear that Ed had passed away.

The Santorums owe an explanation to the nation on many issues. They casually toss about lies and slanderous BS whenever it seems helpful for Ricky's career. Fortunately the voters of PA saw through his bullshit (18 points!). But, hey, maybe he'll win the GOP nomination, that would sure be interesting.

I do not have the same belief system as Ricky, but I'm guessing that his calls for a dude with a pitchfork to ask the questions that don't get answered in this life.
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Hey top comment. I'm straight as fuck. And I 100% see through santorum's (ew) lies and obviously feeble attempts at getting in a good light.

Though I might just be a outlier... sigh...

Anyway fuckin' tell em Dan. Right on.
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Most of the GOP candidates have imaginary gay friends. Except Bachmann, she married a real one.
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I wouldn't rule out the possibility that these gay friends actually exist; in every election, a certain number of gay voters vote Republican, as you have pointed out several times, Dan, not to even speak of openly gay prominent supporters and staffers for Republican politicians (Mary Cheney, anyone?) . Now, while Santorum may have used (and continued to use) particularly vile anti-gay rhetoric, he is not actually that far from the Republican mainstream on these questions in terms of actual policy positions.

So, yeah, probably there are gay people out there supporting Santorum (or Bachmann or Huckabee or whoever) . Now whether they're actual friends of Elizabeth or rather mere acquaintances or FB friends or 'friends of friends'...I don't know. But the idea is not absurd.
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Her father is a bully. A papist bully. And papist bullies have a very, very long history of cruelty and evil.
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While I disagree with the stance that one cannot support gay rights and be a republican (my husband's entire family, including his gay brother, vote republican. All cite an alignment to republican fiscal policies, and an aversion to the republican disenfranchisement of any subset of the population that are deemed less moral by the clearly biased and broken republican yardstick) I maintain that no one with a shred of compassion or respect for human rights will support this frothy mix.
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I think to ask that question you need to have an agreed upon decision about what being friends mean? Ms. Elizabeth may consider individuals whose services her family has hired as "friends" in this scenario, as it isn't uncommon to round relationships up when you are painting yourself in the prettiest way.

There is also this reality, I am going to acknowledge my own cynicism here, and put this in a rather Austen-ish way, there are many who rank the demands of their pocketbooks above the demands of their hearts. Money is a mighty god, many believe that it is their identity and self-worth, and when you come from a privileged background you often can't (or won't) consider the reality of those who don't have a padded pocketbook. Ms. Elizabeth is from a privileged background and odds are that her "friends" are also or aspire to become so. I'm guessing that Ms. Elizabeth's "friends" have the means to buy what they and any partner might need. Just my $0.02.

I'll leave the thread to those who oppose your opinion and will put it another way, the tired trope that society should not have to "support" the "choice" of being gay. Or more simply put heterosexuals deserve financial and legal benefits, from the government, because of their sexual anatomy and choices. I think Churchill was right when he said that "a fundamentalist is a person who won't change his mind and refuses to change the subject."
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Did someone say Papist? Nom.
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@3: The singular isn't santorius, why would the plural be santorii? about the only word I can think of that pluralizes to have two is at the end is radius.

Instead, I propose santora. Of course, since santorum is a mass noun, like sand, or bread, there aren't a lot scenarios where you'll need a plural.
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Donny Osmond has gay friends? Does Marie?
23
As a fan of Charlie Chaplin, Adolf Hitler was very hurt by The Great Dictator.

I used to know an Israeli Jew who was an admirer of Mussolini. He was also a closet case and a furry. True story.
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@15, Mary Cheney is not a good example. Her father, loathsome as he is, has come out in support of gay partnerships. Moreover, you don't hear the Cheneys speaking out in support of Santorum. I also have conservative gay friends, but they'd not vote rather than support Santorum.

For the records, as a hetero single/never-married woman, I share your anger. Sure, Santorum's never likened my sex life to bestiality but, with all his talk of the importance of families, I certainly feel as if I have little-to-no value in his idea of society.

Let's keep Spreading Santorum until he drowns in the frothy mix!!!
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That video was so sweet it brought tears to my eyes. Anyone who watches that and still supports denying marriage to same-sex couples is either brainwashed or lacks a heart.
26
Donny Osmond isn't gay? Granted I'm hetero, so my gaydar isn't the best, but come on.
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The Huff Post writers didn't even get it right...they're Bowdlerizing Santorum's original statements: "...compared same-sex relationships to bigamy, polygamy and incest" should read "...compared same-sex relationships to bigamy, polygamy, incest and bestiality."

I'd expect better from a semi-left leaning media operation.
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right on dan! keep posting about him, people need to know the truth.
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Where would she have a chance to make friends with a SSA person? She's only twenty and has been home schooled in smallish towns/ex-urbs her whole life. I hadn't heard of U of Dallas but the Wiki makes it sound like commuter college. I went to large urban public schools my whole life and a collection of pretty electic friends and, while met a few, it was my mid-twenties before I actually befriended an open gay person.
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osteen, not orstein. come on, dan, make the correction, please.
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Corrected, Scary! Sorry about that!
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@ 30, that's the whole thing that reveals the lie behind calling fetuses "babies." If conservatives gave a single shit about children, they'd be leading the charge for public assistance and education for the poor, and support all manner of REAL (not abstinence-only) sex education. But just about every one of their policies reveals their utter contempt for these babies once they've come to full term.

Anti-choice is all about social control. No more, no less.
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I'm acquainted with a gay man who is essentially a teapartier. He hates Obama with a passion, but will probably not vote Republican this year because the only candidate he finds remotely acceptable is Jon Huntsman, who won't get the nomination.
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I dunno, Dan. Republicans have gone from 23% of the gay vote to 31% between 2004 and 2010. And there are plenty of gay Republicans out there in politics, both closeted and not - Mark Foley, Larry Craig, Ken Mehlman, Karl Rove, Roy Washburn - who have no problem aligning themselves with the most evil anti-gay elements in the country. I don't doubt for a second that Elizabeth Santorum has gay friends of the wealthy self-hating type.
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Of course they have gay friends! People like Larry Craig, George Rekkers, etc. Hell, Michelle Bachman even MARRIED a gay man. How much closer can friends be?
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Bigots are very similar to vampires in their lusts -- they have to have people that are attracted to their ideas, or have mind victims, or they disappear, or switch blood types to a new boogie-man species. They move from incarnation to incarnation through the centuries, morphing from demonizing one minority to the next. That's where the "I have gay friends who are attracted to dad" lie comes in. Without converts, bigot vampires become insecure and thirsty. Dan is a superior Van Helsing, chopping off the blood supply. But where will the bigot vampire emerge in the next generation, when this battle is won? Let's keep finding them, as they seek to sleep in the shadows, only to emerge fresh when they sink their teeth into the next minority.
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@29. University of Dallas for undergrads is pretty sheltered, you have to live on campus or at home unil you're 21. Theologically, they were very conservative but that might be waining a little since they had one group move to Ave Maria, that clusterfuck in th Florida swamp. Of course they've been accused of heresy by those that don't think they are devout enough, or FSM forbid, they actually question things. The catholic league would be right at home there, according to friends who actually went there.
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Gee, if only the Stranger had writers who at least consider themselves political reporters...and were in Iowa...and could ask these questions.

Oh, wait: http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archive…
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Poor Little Danny really lets Rick get under his skin......
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There are always A-Gay Wannabes, who aspire to nothing so much as to grow up to be just like the character so waspishly portrayed by "Sirina" McKellan in Tales of the City.

There's also the Phyllida Erskine Brown effect. Once she begins to overcome the prejudice against women and succeed at the Bar, Phyllida is in no great hurry to help the sisterhood to join her. She likes being the only barrister who can succeed in court by reducing Judge Bullingham to a quivering blob of sexual excitement. Why invite competition and lose an advantage?
42
This was brilliantly said. Perfect. Thank you, Dan.
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catballou:

"All cite an alignment to republican fiscal policies, and an aversion to the republican disenfranchisement of any subset of the population that are deemed less moral by the clearly biased and broken republican yardstick) I maintain that no one with a shred of compassion or respect for human rights will support this frothy mix. "

Let me guess - the 'republican fiscal policies' they supposedly are aligned with would be 'fiscal conservatism', am I correct? IOW, something that the GOP has been against for thirty years now.

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OMG yes a thousand times YES. I've written about this a ton of times. Our media is so freaking lazy I could scream. Enough with the stenography, people. This is an age of YouTube, I can hear what someone says for myself. I need a reporter to do some work and actually, you know, verify some stuff. Be skeptical. Call bullshit on this stuff more often.

It's not just on the gay issue, it's on EVERYTHING these idiots say. Here in Tennessee our wackadoodle governor and lieutenant governor have taken to saying any old crap -- there are jobs but no job applicants bec… is a famous example -- and the reporters just print it. No one ever says "Really? Who told you they have job openings and no applicants? Give me a name."

Please, I beg of you. A return to skepticism in our news media would do the nation a whole helluva lot of good.
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Dan, this face value stenographer problem is widespread... I did my dissertation on mainstream news coverage of the Civil Rights Movement and you will routinely see, for example, Newsweek journalists "interviewing" a "reformed" white segregationist who swears they've found interracial healing.

Surprise surprise: the "I have black friends" defense inevitably follows. Never does a skeptical, "Really? Name 'em."

Another example of this is when white Arizona voters turned down a referendum to reinstate the King holiday several years running (until threats to pull the Super Bowl forced the issue to the right side of history). If you look at CBS's coverage of that, they only interview blacks outraged over the referendum. Despite being on location in Arizona, they don't interview a single white voter who cast the majority vote. The framing was not, "Why did the voters reject this?" but, instead, "Why are those black people so mad about it?"

This is how mainstream news outlets protect the privileged, be it along lines of race, sexuality, or just plain ol' power. They do not interrogate, they subtly corroborate. And an easy way to do so is to omit the most obvious questions that need asking.
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Oh, and one more thing...

Yes, self-hating closet cases exist.

Yes, there are conservative gays who carefully compartmentalize away the anti-gay hysteria of the right and focus, instead, on their (equally batshit) economic policies.

The existence of either is entirely beside the point. Any person who cannot stand by their argument without invoking "phantom" friends on the other side of that argument is a guilt-driven narcissist with poor reasoning and debating skills. "Well, so and so agrees with me" provides no real evidence for any argument. It is a self-deluding evasion, nothing more. It is a person looking for moral cover or exoneration.
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Remember, Ernst Röhm was a gay Nazi. So, logically, gays must have supported the Holocaust, right? Because at least one homosexual was a Nazi. (Oh, yeah, they killed him pretty early on...)
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Bad Dan Savage! You made me watch that video and cry!

I was thinking about the issue of gay people who vote Republican and wondering why they would vote against their own self-interest when I realized that they vote Republican for the same reason that most people who vote Republican do. They think they'll get to keep more of their money because bad people they don't know won't get it, and *nothing else will change.* The roads will be there, the cops and fire department will be there, an educated populace will still be there because none of those things take tax dollars. And they'll never need special services beyond what they can afford, anyway, because they're the "right kind of people." Not a lot of rational thinking there.
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And by gay friends, lkely means some poor members of the ex-gay movement.
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There are gay republicans out there, just as there are black republicans. A rarity, but they exist. Nevertheless, a gay republican is more likely to support a more moderate candidate, like perhaps Romney or Huntsman. No way are they going to support the most homophobic candidate in the entire republican lineup. There are other choices, even amongst the Rs.
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Holy crud, those political reporters should do it! Yes, there are conservative gays out there, but it would be very interesting to hear why a non-insane gay person would support such an anti-gay candidate. Santorum should encourage it as well. What could do him more credit than a gay supporter saying what he likes about Santorum's financial or military stances?
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I would love to see Rick Santorum get the nod to be the Republican candidate. What better way to force the issue and his preposterous views out into the open?

I try to do the equivalent all the time. I'm a Canadian, and even though I'm straight, I revel in the opportunity to ridicule those who argued against the passing of same sex marriage up here. They predicted the end of the family and everything short of catastrophe up here if two people of the same sex could have their marriage recognized. They DESERVE ridule...let's get on with it.
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I get supporting fiscal conservatism. That being said, how much would it cost (the average person) to allow marriage equality? How much (money?) would we save by increasing the pool of adoptive and foster parents?

Social progressivism shouldn't have much in the way of dollar cost. Start taking away non-religion reasons for denying equality, and frame the argument (against) as an attempt to establish a state religion.

Peace.
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@51, that was exactly what I thought. Since Mr Santorum (and his daughter) would gain politically from having their "gay friends" publicly defend him and his ideas, the fact that this hasn't happened -- that we don't see "gay friends of Rick Santorum" coming forward to explain why they like his "family values" politics -- suggests that they (unlike gay supporters of fiscal conservatism and small government) don't really exist.
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From the article on Ed Watson's death (one of the men in the video):

"Kernek could not be reached for comment because, according to Courage Campaign organizer Anthony Ash, their telephone was recently disconnected."

This is one of the most heart-breaking things I think I've ever read.
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This helps prove your point. http://www.washingtonblade.com/2012/01/0…
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I was in Seattle for the Great Santorum Definition -

So I love this column but I think it needs more links to www.santorum.com
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Who are these gay people who support Rick Santorum for president despite his having compared sex between consenting adults of the same sex to child rape and dog fucking?

I think they're all in GOProud.
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@21 - The GOP hasn't been for the things they used to be for for 25 years (at least). Look at the spending record of any Republican administration & then get back to me about how they are "fiscal conservatives". They're not.

Both parties kinda disgust me. I guess the Democrats slightly less so.

@57 - I read that. do those young folks not know about Ron Paul's homophobic comments? Or, do they just not care? I guess the latter. & easy enough to say "oh gays have plenty of rights" when you live somewhere w/ marriage equality.

Oh, Dan. Those two, dear old men. & the one left on his own has no phone? Wouldn't it be a good Flying Monkey thing to take up some kinda collection for that guy?

I will start buying the physical newsprint newspapers from any that actually ask to see the gay friends of the Santorii.
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Honestly, my first thought was that they *had* to be at Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foster%27s_…)
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I love you Dan! A true great GAY SUPERHERO!!!
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The GOP is evil and hate filled; it is not just Santorum...
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Amen. And Ladies, let's not forget the froth also has said that he plans on going after birth control, and then backed down. If he were to get into the White House, I'm convinced it would be a Walker-style "I didn't really campaign on this, but you knew who my handlers were, so SUCKAAAAHHHH" and make laws making it more difficult/illegal to get. Oh, but no extra support for foodstamps/medicaid/WIC... because people need to be accountable for their actions.... which apparently we weren't when we made sure we weren't getting pregnant by using proper birth control.
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@33 Spot on, it is all about social control. Small government is the phrase they constantly bandy about, bit seem to see no contradiction in forcing women to give birth, dictating what sexual acts people can perform, and who you should be able to love and live with in a legally recognized, committed relationship. Even if someone supports the fiscal policies of the GOP the sheer hypocrisy of their social policies should surely stop straight people, gay Republicans aside, from supporting such candidates. My dream ticket for them would be Santorum and Bachmann, since that would assuredly prevent them gaining the presidency and rolling us back years in civil rights.
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What do you want to bet that if a reporter DID ask her to produce these gay friends, she (and probably her father) would whine about how the liberal media pounced on her with a gotcha question.
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Plus si change... In Rita Mae Brown's 1976 "A Plain Brown Rapper" (pg 49) she describes an exchange at a 1969 feminist panel discussion:

"Charlotte Sun stood up and in a low, controlled voice repeated painfully: 'I'm tired of hearing a slick public relations rap that doesn't come from the gut. Let's look at the oppression right here in this room. You women on the panel have used your heterosexual privilege to silence the topic of love -- especially since that topic was love between women, which would seem to me to be critical to the movement.'

Another stunned silence. Marlene Dixon [on the panel] allowed as how some of her best friends were homosexual. At this point a woman two rows in front of us exploded with:

'SHE SAID IT! SHE ACTUALLY SAID IT!'

Laughter."

They never learn.
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What do you want to bet that if a reporter DID ask to meet one of these gay friends, she and her father would whine that it was a liberal media gotcha question.
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Oops. Sorry for the double post. It's my first comment here and I was a bit flummoxed by your signup system.
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Just spent the evening last night with a couple of gay men and got into an argument with them when they started espousing how inspiring and intelligent they though Michele Bachmann and Sarah Palin are. Bizarre. Still not sure what to make of it...
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You know, I think the most dangerous thing that gay people have done in the past two decades or so is to marry and have/raise children in large numbers. It was one thing to rally behind gay sex and sexual liberation, politically. It was worthwhile. It was important. But I think that kind of personal, individual freedom pales in comparison to the way we feel about defending our families and our children.

There are some gay people -- more than a few -- who care more about their tax bill than they do about anything else. They see it as a point of pride to be intellectually independent of the gay issue. Okay, but they sure as hell are not coming to any of my parties. And if they are brave enough to take me on in open debate, I will give them no quarter.

Christians hate being called on their hate because they really want to be seen as people who love everyone. So call them, call them, call them on it. Make them uncomfortable. They are lying about us. They are being bad fellow citizens. They are shaming this great country that we all share. In my humble opinion, they are shaming their faith. Politicians need to be forced to own up to their bigotry and their lies and not hide behind the Bible.
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I'm sure these folks do actually have gay friends, but they'll never tell you the names of these gay friends because they're all self-hating closet cases.
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Go Dan go! Well-written and legit. And I didn't even cry because I'm too afraid to watch the video that will inevitably make me cry, and I'm already on your side.

I find it too bad that Elizabeth Santorum will likely never read this and never really be confronted with the tragic consequences of keeping gay marriage illegal. How she'll never have to compare the "sadness" of children being denied "Google Santorum" privileges to the truly sad facts of people losing their loved ones and their entire livelihoods over a "policy thing." And meanness? Really? Head explode! Of course, people like her and Rick are already biased towards being unsympathetic because they believe it's a choice, and will continue to do so because that's the only thing they can believe that will protect their consciences from processing the suffering homophobia causes.

Oh and I believe there are "friends"--just like I'm friends with all the customers I serve coffee to: in passing, we're all polite to each other.
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..wasn't it just yesterday that her dad claimed he knew black people ?..and then named a couple. ? so sure.. asking for names is TOTALLY fair.
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Ed and Derence's story STILL brings tears to my eyes and all I had to do was read their names. :(
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This is why I read Savage even when he annoys me--the good stuff is just FAR too good to miss! Damn straight, why does the media engage in stenography rather than reporting? Why do they let Santorum say that Obama is engaging in un-American activities? What?! Make him specify, please, or else offer a rebuttal in the article. This ridiculous effort to seem "unbiased" only allows the crazy people to dominate the discourse.
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@71 LikeItIs: I too am amazed at the level of Schitzophrenia and denial needed for that to occur: gay people supporting Bachman or Palin. I have to assume that these people are either self-hating on some level, or able to compartmentelize thier thoughts or beliefs to an amazing extent. The Rebublicans seem to have made a most amazing propaganda advance at some point that convinces people to vote against thier own self interest. It seems to allow people to agree with them on some level on some litmus test issue for the voter (fiscal conservatism, smaller government) then ignore or downplay thier position on other issues that are vital to thier own self interest (gay rights, or women's issues). I've noted this at my work in the environmental field as well, some people are so wrapped up in the Repubs mythical stance on smaller government or fiscal conservatism that they ignore thier smoke-stack-hugging environmental positions. I point out that if environmental regulation or its enforcement is rolled back, they literally might not continue to have jobs in thier field, they then just look at me bewilderedly say they don't support those posistions, and change the subject back to the evil of entitlement programs.
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Something else that the reporter failed to follow up on:

Elizabeth said: "People are entitled to live the way they want . . ."

So she says. But her father reiterated in October that he thinks Lawrence v. Texas was wrongly decided and that he supports laws criminalizing sodomy. So, no, he doesn't believe that gay people are entitled to live their lives the way they want. Why didn't the reporter call her on this?

He is not Rick "leave the gays alone" Santorum. He is Rick "throw the dirty gays in jail" Santorum. Does his little mouthpiece daughter agree with that? Let's get it out in the open. Because I want people to know that a vote for Santorum is, philosophically, a vote to put my daughter's daddies in jail.
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Sadly, I believe these homophobes' claims of gay friends. There are plenty of self-loathing gays who will cozy up to these high-profile creeps. Who else fills the ranks of the Log Cabin Republicans and GOProud?
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Awesome commentary, Dan. The instead she said she knew gay people, I immediately thought she was lying. THEY always lie, and no one calls them out on their lie. Enough already. You say you have gay friends? Prove it, or shut the hell up.
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Sorry, "instead" should have been "moment". When I get angry, the words tend to get jumbled. I get angry a lot ;-)
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"...part of a campaign by columnist Dan Savage to redefine the candidate's last name after he compared same-sex relationships to bigamy, polygamy and incest."

Well that's completely disingenuous, like saying "...after he drank a glass of water." Yes, I'm sure Santorum both drank a glass of water and "compared same-sex relationships to bigamy, polygamy and incest" at some point in time before Dan's santorum campaign, but the impetus was comparing gay sex to dog-fucking and child-fucking. Big fucking difference, especially since I don't think bigamy/polygamy or incest are necessarily, intrinsically bad (they're actually more-valid comparisons as socially-marginalized sexualities involving, or at least that can involve, consenting adults; I think they DO frequently play out problematically, in part because most - but not all - incest involves non-consenting minors, but there's no intrinsic harm to plural marriage, multiple sexual partners, or sexual activity with someone with whom one shares some genes or a social family unit). I definitely think fucking little kids should be illegal, though I think zoophilia is more complex: if we allow factory farming, we've lost any sort of ethical ground with respect to the treatment of animals on which to base "don't fuck/get fucked by animals". There may be safety concerns, but I really don't think it's the place of public policy to stop people from engaging in self-harming behaviors, either. Anyway, my limited apologism for zoophilia notwithstanding, this provides examples of bad journalism in all sorts of ways.

@69: They'd be correct, since it would certainly gotch them. "Gotcha" questions can only exist if one runs around spouting off about something about which one doesn't actually know anything AND one claims to know something about the topic ("I don't know," is a perfectly acceptable answer, right up until one has been repeatedly claiming to know something). I've NEVER understood the willingness of both politicians and media personalities to play Lowest Common Denominator, especially when candidates who actually know what the fuck they're talking about can put the lie to their opponents' statements/claims by not pandering. Let them whine about "gotcha" questions or "Liberal bias", and then mock them mercilessly about it and/or completely refute their idiotic and/or nonsense claims.
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Gays simply cannot risk supporting any non-progressive Republican in the change-ripe society such as ours. Nor can gay-friendly folks.
Say what you want about policy and economics and which party has the right solution. You know what, NONE OF THEM has it figured out. Between the partisan wrangling and one-upmanship and lobbyists, and big business, no single party has the solution.
But I will tell you one thing: IT IS TIME FOR THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA TO TAKE A GIANT LEAP INTO THE 21ST CENTURY ON SOCIAL ISSUES AND THERE IS NO CURRENT GOP CANDIDATE WHO WILL ADVANCE THE ISSUES OF EQUALITY FOR LGBT CITIZENS.
It's all about the economy--yeah right. It's tanked. And it will recover.
But citizens who deserve equality cannot risk another 2 steps backward on issues that undermine what this Great Constitution was created to enforce: we are all of us created equally and all deserving of the same rights as every other citizen.
The line is being drawn, people.
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I'm a student at the University of Dallas (and, I guarantee you, the only one who agrees with any of you), and I can guarantee you, if she has gay friends, they sure as hell do not attend UD.
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Gays simply cannot risk supporting any non-progressive Republican in the change-ripe society such as ours. Nor can gay-friendly folks.
Say what you want about policy and economics and which party has the right solution. You know what, NONE OF THEM has it figured out. Between the partisan wrangling and one-upmanship and lobbyists, and big business, no single party has the solution.
But I will tell you one thing: IT IS TIME FOR THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA TO TAKE A GIANT LEAP INTO THE 21ST CENTURY ON SOCIAL ISSUES AND THERE IS NO CURRENT GOP CANDIDATE WHO WILL ADVANCE THE ISSUES OF EQUALITY FOR LGBT CITIZENS.
It's all about the economy--yeah right. It's tanked. And it will recover.
But citizens who deserve equality cannot risk another 2 steps backward on issues that undermine what this Great Constitution was created to enforce: we are all of us created equally and all deserving of the same rights as every other citizen.
The line is being drawn, people.
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@Matt from Denver

I think it is best put like this. The GOP cares about children till they are born, then they are on their own!
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OK, I skipped a lot of the comments, and I imagine someone has already said this, but I wanted to say it myself. There's a BIG difference between being a Republican and being a Santorum/Bachmann style Republican. A lot of Republicans identify with fiscal policies, and not so much the social stuff (libertarian-style Republicans disdain that shit outright, because it's none of the government's business). Santorum and Bachmann have built their careers around intense homophobia. It's their primary hook for voters. People who are interested in other Republican virtues do NOT vote for Santorum, because they can get those values elsewhere without all the pointless, destructive--and ultimately counter-productive--hate.
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Always wondered about this "sodomy." Supposing it is Ecclesiastical Latin: peccatum Sodomiticum. First, the story of Sodom and Gomorrah is fictional, but even if it were true, it seems odd that Lot would offer his virgin daughters to a group of people that most evangelicals say were homosexual. Everyone knows that gay guys like nothing better than virgin girls. There is no logic in this story, a poorly written metaphor at best. Only thing I can get out of it is turn your back on this god and he'll supply you with a lifetime of free seasoning. I tried it (turning my back on this god), well, lets just say I still have to go to Food City and buy salt.
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It's hard to put into words how the Santorum garbage makes me feel. This is OUR LIVES he's trashing, our LOVE he's criminalizing. Whenever I see him talk on TV he's broadcasting HATE against good, decent people to millions of viewers across the nation. May he and all the people like him go down in history as the lying, malicious, self-serving scum of the earth bigots that they are!!
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You should have said "personal lubricant" instead of "lube". But I guess if you're going to confirm homophobes' perception of gays as vile by circulating something disgusting about gay sex, you might as well present yourself as unsophisticated and immature at the same time. By the way, what kind of lube gets frothy?
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Perhaps the people who would have asked such a question choose to do a different job.

It seems like the profession used to have a very high status. 'Investigative reporter' was a stock heroic character. It was Superman's job.

Maybe the type of girl who used to want to be Lois Lane doesn't want to work for Rupert Murdoch and has a blog instead.

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This is the LGBT version of racist politicians' earnest claim that "Some of my best friends are black."
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Oh, Dan Savage, how do I love thee? This post is beautiful and perfect. I read it to aloud to my husband last night, and it caused us both chills. When you shine, you are blindingly and heartbreakingly brilliant. You are a national treasure. Thank you for saying exactly what needed to be said in exactly the manner it needed to be said.
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*gave us both chills, not caused us both chills lol. Sorry, I'm slightly over-caffeinated, and I think two separate thoughts got a little muddled in my fingers' rush.
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I think Elizabeth is confused. She probably has gay friends who support santorum the sexual byproduct, not Santorum the presidential candidate.
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Reminds me of the time in 1975 that an ex Nazi (a professor of neurology in Freiburg, Germany) told me that some of his best friends were Jewish....
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I'm not into gays. I don't have any gay friends. I don't want to be around gays. I hope none of my kids come out gay. I wouldn't care if gay didn't even exist. It would not matter to me. That said, I'm not so closed minded and mean spirited as to give a damn if an adult male marries another consenting adult male. Same applies to lesbians. It's none of my business. Why people feel the need to control and classify other people has never made any sense to me. Pray that Ron Paul is somehow allowed to win the presidency. He thinks like me. He just doesn't give a damn about gay people, whites, blacks, greens, browns, yellows, etc. We're all individuals and as individuals we all have the same rights. That is what gay people, ALL PEOPLE, should want.
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amen
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We should ALL be supporting Santorum, not for president, but for the GOP *nomination* for president! Think about it: he has a Google problem that makes him unelectable, he sounds more blatantly extreme and far right than Romney even though they both will follow most of the same wingnut policies if elected, and getting him nominated will force the political discussion into the discussion we want to talk about, i.e. women's rights, gay rights, minority rights, because his positions are so blatantly out of the mainstream that they will catch the media's attention. It's nothing but upside for the left if Santorum gets nominated.
http://santorumforgop.tumblr.com
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I totally support the nomination of Rick Santorum for President. If I could vote in a Republican primary to do so, I would vote to nominate him. I want him to be THE candidate up against Obama. Today, I turned on Rush by mistake and listened for about five minutes. He was almost hyperventilating about the issue of electibility, essentially saying that Santorum is electable. It made me begin to wonder if he's really a conservative or perhaps a liberal (like me) who wants this whole thing to burn and die, or maybe he's just an idiot. Probably, the third.

Liberals, even those in the NYTimes, seem to think that Romney is only a fiscal conservative, not a values one. I'll bet dollars to donuts that if he gets elected, we're in some big trouble, because this guy has gone to dark side, and he is electable. Very scary. So, let us throw and heave our support his way and totally embrace the nomination of Rick Santorum because independents will not vote for this nutcake, while they will for Romney, who seems like a cool glass of water, after lunatics like Bachmann, Perry, Gingrich, and Santorum, the newest flavor of nut this week. The only problem is that Romney is as nutty as they are. He just talks a better line and seems to seem sane, cause he keeps his mouth shut unless he has to say something. Then he says things like, "I'd be proud to have Dick Cheney as my VP," or "I will vote against abortion in the case of rape, incest or the life of the mother," or "I am for DADT and against gay marriage." Some say, he is saying these things to get elected. i happen to believe him. I think we should be very scared of his nomination and hope and pray that Santorum takes it.
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I find it sad that Ms Santorum doesn't view her fathers platform as mean.

Am new here, thanks to Laura Novak mentioning you on her blog.

Great article Dan.
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I can't understand the gay voter who supports the GOP. I do understand have conservative fiscal ideas. I just don't see how that trumps the "who you are" portion of voting.
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Hey Danny!

They were talking about you on CNN tonite!

by name!

(we know how much you get a hardon about being on CNN....)

Pierce Morgan had on Rick; and the wife and kids
(damn lovely family, we must say.
you know Danny,
you could have married a nice catholic girl and had a houseful of kids as well.....)

So the daughter was saying how she prays for your depraved pathetic soul.

She seemed like such a nice kid, you almost wonder if god would answer her prayers.

PS....oh, hey, Slog fanboys- were your ears burning too?
(and still the yellow discharge? eeeeew....no, just kidding!)
Cause Morgan said people who mock the Santorums for how they grieved the loss of their child are first rate assholes.
are you going to let him call you first rate assholes?
Farting Monkeys! to your email!!

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