Aw, that's utterly great. Your work lo, these decades has given readers a legacy of experience they can pass along to the next generation. Best sort of crowdsourcing yet.
What's gross? Gay men aren't the only ones with prostates. Straight guys have 'em too. So it only makes sense that it would feel good to a lot of guys to be penetrated.
And as a female that really, really wants to peg a guy, it's HOT!
@8 If you ever have or have to deal with infants, you'll get over the 'gross' factor but quick. (hehe, "butt" quick...) I lost my squick factor for any of that stuff years ago. Anyway, there's isn't much if any poop if you're doin' it right.
@10- Obviously. Hard to believe folks are still so clueless after 20 years of Savage Love, but here's the proof.
But perhaps straight dudes don't deal with their holes in advance like most gay dudes do? I hope I'm wrong there.
@12 I'm not so sure that can be counted on. My straight roommates, for example, find it bizarre and somehow vaguely gross that I purchase wet wipes instead of toilet paper.
@13- those same guys probably wash a couple times per year 'down there'; fear of the anus making you gay strikes again. Now *those* guys ARE gross, and I'd be afraid to stick 'em with anything.
@7 - Not necessarily. My definition of "manly" doesn't mean big and buff frat dudes. The guys that I'm with know who they are and what they want, and they aren't shy about sharing it with me. It's not just the domination, it's that they trust me implicitly and bend over willingly.
And as a female that really, really wants to peg a guy, it's HOT!
@2, Being sarcastic I hope.
RTam @3, care to share any insight as to what the turn on is for the pegger?
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But perhaps straight dudes don't deal with their holes in advance like most gay dudes do? I hope I'm wrong there.