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1
Sounds like the 2nd LW had a selfish boor of a BF. Don't hate pegging because of one selfish dickhead.
2
LIMP, try stroking yourself while you're getting pegged. I usually go soft on the rare occasions when I get fucked, but have found that I can still get myself off and come very intensely without an erection.
3
The first LW could also try masturbating while his wife pegs him.
4
I don't see why "pegger's remorse" should even be a term, since pegging is kind of incidental to the real problem. "Finding out your significant other is a selfish dickwad remorse" would be more like it. She would have come to that conclusion anyway; it just might have taken a bit longer.
5
I don't know, sounds like pegging him allowed you to find out quicker what a selfish dick he is, and to get rid of him sooner. I'd say that's a good thing.
6
@ 2 - Beat me to it.

I usually lose my erection at the moment of insertion, but it comes back with a bit of stimulation, and the orgasm is indeed very intense, as you say.
7
Wait. He got pegged with a reproduction of his own dick?!

Does a wormhole form when you tamper with the space-time continuum like that?
8
@7 - Ted Haggard had one of those, and he and his wife called it Little Ted.
9
@7,

Like in the final episode of Star Trek TNG when there were three different Starship Enterprises from different dimensions hovering right near one another poised to do battle... Except in this case it's three penile facsimiles? Yeah, that's hot.
10
My humble guess for LIMP is that it's the thrusting that he's not used to. They could try simply inserting the dildo and then he could jack himself off--or she could jack him off--with no thrusting until he tries that a few times.
11
With the second LW's letter, it sounds like the problem was less with the strap-on and more with the dick. Good riddance! I hope it was an educational dumping.
12
@4: Pegging, in excess, can be indicative of the "selfish jerk boyfriend" problem, since the guy gets off on it but not usually the girl. (What she gets is mostly psychological, with perhaps a bit of pressure on the mons pubis.)
13
I also got the slippery slope vibe from the second letter. If only she hadn't pegged him, then he wouldn't have escalated his desire for the activity ALL THE TIME, leaving her neglected and frustrated. Uh ... that would be his selfishness intruding, and not the pegging.

Selfishness was in the driver's seat, and the pegging merely the vehicle.
14
The selfish boyfriend has probably got a yearning to try the real thing now that he's single and without his pegger. Maybe he's just got his own straight-guy dildo. Maybe I'm wrong.
15
Ever just think about going to see a proctologist?
16
@7: I'm sure that someone somewhere has made Portal porn.
18
@7 and @9: and this is where I kill the mood by pointing out that the starship from the future timeline which emitted the inverse tachyon pulse was Beverly's ship, the Pasteur, and not Riker's future Enterprise. :} Sorry.
19
Our Troll @15 having his "Tiny-hands-please-touch-my-heart?" doctor fantasy again. Do your doc a favor and fucking wash before your next prostate exam.

20
@12 - there are some very nice double-ended (Nexus, Feeldoe) dildos to make sure she's getting hers too. LW2's BF sounds like the problem was that he him self was just a dildo and selfish.
21
Yes, the problem isn't the pegging but the arsehole that was being pegged.
22
@ 17 "paragliding with no training remorse"?

I'm no expert, but I'd guess that not too many people with severe brain damage get to feel remorse (which, clearly, is the only positive thing about suffering severe brain damage).
23
@17/@22: It happens. I know someone who, back in the wild-west days of hang gliding, signed up, and launched off a very tall cliff with little training. When a gust inverted the hang glider, she didn't know how to right it and suffered a concussion and skull fracture upon landing. But not so much brain damage that she couldn't regret the minimal training.

"banana onion cornbread remorse" I'm not sure actually happens, but I love the whole list as a humorous, literary device.

24
I love getting pegged and have been pegged many times in my long life. But I also almost always go soft and need some time to recover afterward. This doesn't mean it isn't awesome!
25
@17 I think it's worth noting the letter writer put almost everything in terms of her feelings.

I think what is telling is that she "realized that selfishness was a big character trait in him generally, not just sexually, and [she] broke up with him", but still can't help feeling that the pegging brought the relationship down.

Now, this may be an illogical, dumb way to feel, and knowing that may be why FR is comforted by the idea that enough other people have gone through it to have the term "pegger's remorse" coined. In fact, her head has already wrapped itself around the idea that she will one day feel ready to peg someone new.

Now, Functional Atheist, perhaps you should be feeling a little "unfair shitter's remorse"?
26
What sort of guy makes or obtains a reproduction of his own cock? Pretty proud, for starters, but also pretty likely a self-centred dick. A proud GGG guy would have gone to the trouble to make it a double-headed model!

Faithful, you might have been the first girl he had the courage to ask, but I doubt it was the first time he had taken that road.
27
The 2nd letter writer isn't having pegger's remorse, she's having "I was dating a selfish douche" remorse. There's a difference.
28
Re the second letter: The regret is for going over a serious boundary for herself, out of love and trust and a desire to be a good partner, and instead of it being a bonding experience it winds up being something that makes her feel sad and incidental to the thing (pegging or whatever) her boyfriend really wanted. Can't get pegged if you don't go through the motions necessary to get a girl into that state of wanting to please you first!

The regret is that she didn't figure out what a jerk he was at a lower level of boundary-stretching intimacy.
29
Of course you go limp, Pussy.

You don't need a dick to get fucked in the ass.

That is what your dick is telling you.

sometimes the Little Man gets you in trouble but sometimes he is very wise.

"oh, you're taking it in the ass?
well, you don't need a dick for THAT, Pussy.
when you decide you want to be a man again give me a call....)

You need a dick to be a man.

But you don't need a dick to get fucked in the ass.

Sure, Danny can coax you through it.

Do you know what an acquired taste is?

You can condition yourself to like anything.

Where do you think homosexuals and other deviants come from?
30
Is it possible we've gotten to comment 30 without anyone mentioning the "reach-around" move?
31
@26: "... pretty likely a self-centred dick."

A guy with a replica of his own cock up his ass is literally a self-centered dick.
32
Get a prescription for Alprostidil penile suppositories. They get you rock hard for two hours. Peg away.

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