the first time a lady did that with me I thought I got peed on. good times.

Also, this operant conditioning goes way faster if you use a clicker. Like with dolphins.

Ya know, dan does a lot of gay sex questions, so I'm sure ya'll straight people have had to withstand all of our juicy details when you'd rather not know. I really appreciate your tolerance straight people.

But that doesn't make it any easier for this gay man to read about, *gulp* "squirting". I'm just sayin'

@4, you do it.

@5 Sometimes it tastes like tom kha gai. I like that. :P

Now I'm all hungry and I want some of both in my face. In decent intervals.

Stop concentrating on the destination and enjoy the journey. If you get there, great! If not, you're still having sex with someone who is interested in making sure you're having a good time. Count your blessings and don't worry about if it will happen this time or not. Likely, when you stop thinking about it the whole time it will happen again.

@2 ... Skinner would be so proud. Imagine, a girl who squirts at the sound of a clicker. Next imagine a boy who shoots at the sound of a clicker. Good fun.

Mr Brandon - At least they're enjoying themselves. A sated opposite-sexer isn't out making the world unsafe for same-sexers. Besides, this is the whole point of FTWL...

@6

You're mixing up the cue and the marker. The cue tells them to squirt. The click is the marker, after the cue, for when they squirt, to let them know you're going to reward them by tossing a herring. Although squirting is self-reinforcing with the right partner.

#2 & #8: ACTUALLY, IS DECONDITIONING (OF GF TRAINED RESTRAINT) VIA METHOD OF SUCCESSIVE APPROXIMATIONS! AND IS RATHER INTERESTING CASE AS THE BEHAVIOR AND REWARD/REINFORCEMENT (SQUIRTING!) ARE ONE AND THE SAME! THIS TECHNIQUE IS WELL DOCUMENTED IN THE LANDMARK PAPER CO-AUTHORED BY KINSEY & SKINNER (1938) TITLED, "CLASSICAL DECONDITIONING OF LEARNED SEXUAL INHIBITORY RESPONSE: SUCCESSIVE APPROXIMATIONS TO ORGASM IN THE BEDROOM."