My current bf had never used a vibrator before we got together. I pulled mine out and showed him where to use it our first time having sex. He didn't know that I put the tip of the vibrator on my clitoris, not in my vagina! It has taken him a couple of years to get really GOOD at using it on me, I've had to patiently show him where and how to use it. Now he loves to bring me to orgasm with it and rubs my g-spot with his finger at the same time -- YEAY!

Shoot, my hubby likes me using the vibe during sex as much as I do. He says the sensation of my vagina vibrating around his cock is rather...stimulating.

Didn't Savage just have a column which covered this very subject?

Didn't Savage just have a column on this very subject?

Well, to be fair, Savage's column was only SLIGHTLY more amusing.....

THANK YOU THANK YOU for writing this column! I can only come with about twenty minutes of hard vibes and for years have felt really inadequate about it... faking with all my lovers, even in serious relationships, because the first guy I ever was ever honest with about this issue freaked out on me. When we finally broke up and he got some fuckbuddy, he just had to phone me up to tell me that SHE could get off with just his dick.

...Anyway, I'm rambling. THE MORE AWARENESS WE HAVE ABOUT THIS TOPIC THE BETTER. I've dealt with the negative assumption that my pussy was broken my entire life, and that it was somehow my fault that I couldn't get off a certain way. But no more.

I'm so thankful we have such insightful columnists at The Stranger!

Obama: When are you going to legalize vibrators everywhere? I know the states make up their own laws, but come on. That's a historic day I really want to see.

I rarely achieve clitoral orgasm without vibration. I'm proud to say my man thoroughly enjoys helping me reach them with my hefty vibrator. That big, silly grin tells me he's satisfied with his own performance at my pleasure.

Jamie: If anyone at the federal level legalized vibrators for the whole country, it would be the Supreme Court. Now, who goes on that court is up to Obama...