"Lesbian Bed Death?" My wife and I found a cure: Simple Creativity. I love acting (stage, mostly) and she loves reading we'll say, "unique" stories. Whenever we start to get bored, we do some research and get into completely different roleplay, sometimes working out whole "storylines" and not limiting our roles to one gender or sexuality.
I have the problem of the lower sexdrive, but sometimes the complete change is all I need. If I'm STILL not in the mood, I "suck it up" because I love her. We seem to have worked out our own version of the problem.
Reading about Ellen/Anne and Billy Bob/Angelina is hilarious, now we're in the age of Ellenportia and Brangelina. I wonder who it'll be in 2030 (which is probably the next time I'll re-read this column)?
I have the problem of the lower sexdrive, but sometimes the complete change is all I need. If I'm STILL not in the mood, I "suck it up" because I love her. We seem to have worked out our own version of the problem.