I'm a cuck also I thourly enjoy my wife with her legs splayed wide open while another man enbeds his cock deep into her in fact I have helped hold her legs spread out and open when the guy cums deep inside her knowing she is fucking bareback with the posibility of her getting knocked up again by another man, but only our close friends and not one lover at a time useing 3 to5 guys which she cannot get enough of , by the way me too.

To WWW, why not tell your husband that while you actually being physically involved wit another man is permanently off the cards, you can have a very active imagination. We women all have our wonderful fantasies, so tell him about them! Even if you are one of the rare few that actually fantasises about her husband, tell him it was a stranger, or pretend you are telling someone else. It can be hard saying your fantasies out loud for the first time, but you would have a most appreciative audience. Just make sure, in real life, he knows these are fantasies only and will never be acted out.
Compromise?

@ cuckold like I said this type of thing is not for me but give credit and my hats off to you.

quote from this article:
"What do you mean you've never been fucked? My cock is still in your ass...."

very funny, lol

wanna here a simple plain simple answer from a real man who has friends that may fit this explanation. they don't want you 2 be with another but they don't have the courage 2 stand up 2 you because they think u might leave them (yea thats stupid yer dealin wit desperates). Stand up 2 him tell him 2 be hiself like he is around his friends WITout u. otherwise dump him so he can become his own man and learn from his young virgin bullshit.

The types of Cuckolds and Cuckold Relationships can be very different from each other.
There is the consenting Husband but than there is the Cuckold Husband forced to watch his Wife fuck other Men...while Cuckold Husband is getting Humiliated and Dominated by the HotWife

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I doubt Dan's theory about people eroticizing fears. There are lots of common fears that are never eroticized. Perhaps the reason some women find rape fantasies more exciting than consensual sex is because it allows them to get around a narrowly defined shame of green-lighting sex. If they're being forced, then they don't have to feel ashamed of allowing themselves to be fucked. Less shame equals more pleasure. Applying this psychological framework to cuckolding, it could be that the guy is ashamed of giving women pleasure. He wants to see his girl in the throes of passion, but if he isn't the one doing it, there's more pleasure for him because there's less shame.

I really agree with the last post by Allen - that I doubt Dan's theory of people eroticizing fears in the case of most fantasies/fetishes (i.e. cuckolding, rape fantasy, etc.) Simply put, there are many common fears that people never morph into erotic notions. However, it makes perfect psychological sense to assume that these types of erotic fantasies or turn-on's have to do with one of two things, either; 1) The guilt they fundamentally hold, and finding a way around their guilt in order to be able to enjoy the act, or 2) That it is simply something that is perceived as "wrong" within our cultural upbringing of sex, and therefore becomes a turn-on because it is outside of the box and allows someone an outlet of being something other than what others (meaning society, family, religion, etc.) have 'told' us to be through the course of our upbringing and the development of our moral framework. By breaking free from those restrictions within sex, which is an easy outlet to do it (versus breaking free through a non-traditional family structure or career choice, etc.), it gives people a way to feel they have control over their own lives and choices - and are not a slave to the society and cultural institutions that were built without their input (meaning before they were even born).

I lived in Sweden for a few years in my early 20's (I am not in my early 30's) and many of these sexual things that are 'taboo' here in the US would be considered totally 'normal' in Sweden and not frowned upon at all by ANY group of people within that society.

I am a well educated and successful woman who owns her own business, holds an MBA, volunteers at the animal shelter; by any account I am a 'normal' person and a productive part of society. However, my boyfriend is huge into cuckolding, and I have a 'sex-friend' that I am allowed to do anything with - either when my bf is there or even when he is not. There are 2 other guys as well that I have sex with on a somewhat regular basis - those are always with my bf present. My bf is an extremely successful and smart guy, incredibly good-looking, unbelievably wealthy and well-educated. His reasons behind liking cuckolding derives from a few levels - he likes that it is considered 'wrong' by our social norms, and therefore turns him on. He likes the idea that other guys want me badly, and get so turned on by me, but that he ultimately 'has' me (we are very much in love and have a perfect relationship on every level, complete honesty, have fun together - all of our friends see us as the perfect couple, although they don't know about our sexual lifestyle bc to be honest they would FLIP and quite certainly judge us for it -- we plan on getting married and having a family one day in the near future - and do not plan on giving up our sexual lifestyle at any point). The biggest thing for him is that he is able to give me everything I want - this is the biggest turn-on for him. Either it be new clothes, a vacation, a car - even a bigger cock or a hotter guy - his whole thing is that he wants to make sure I get everything and anything that I want. This is my first relationship where I had I've done cuckolding, and it is by far the best thing EVER and works sooo well for us! The fact that he wants to make sure I get everything I want - that it turns him on! - even if it is me f-ing an even hotter guy than him (which is hard for us to find!! ha!) - well, in some odd ways, it makes me feel more loved than I have ever felt before! I would totally recommend that anyone who is sexually open enough to try it, do it - but the only way it can work is to be totally 100% honest about everything from the beginning, and to lay down rules from the start. For instance, my bf and I have NO rules except emotions cannot be involved with me and the other guys. I can sleep in the same bed as my main sex-friend, I can do anything sexually with him that I want, as long as I tell my bf about it (usually I do in a sexual way and he gets very turned on by it!). I have my own rules - for instance I won't do anal with anyone but my bf - and if my bf is involved or watching there is no touching between him and the other guy (my bf is straight, but sometimes the other guys try to take it to a whole other level :-)

I really agree with the last post by Allen - that I doubt Dan's theory of people eroticizing fears in the case of most fantasies/fetishes (i.e. cuckolding, rape fantasy, etc.) Simply put, there are many common fears that people never morph into erotic notions. However, it makes perfect psychological sense to assume that these types of erotic fantasies or turn-on's have to do with one of two things, either; 1) The guilt they fundamentally hold, and finding a way around their guilt in order to be able to enjoy the act, or 2) That it is simply something that is perceived as "wrong" within our cultural upbringing of sex, and therefore becomes a turn-on because it is outside of the box and allows someone an outlet of being something other than what others (meaning society, family, religion, etc.) have 'told' us to be through the course of our upbringing and the development of our moral framework. By breaking free from those restrictions within sex, which is an easy outlet to do it (versus breaking free through a non-traditional family structure or career choice, etc.), it gives people a way to feel they have control over their own lives and choices - and are not a slave to the society and cultural institutions that were built without their input (meaning before they were even born).

I lived in Sweden for a few years in my early 20's (I am not in my early 30's) and many of these sexual things that are 'taboo' here in the US would be considered totally 'normal' in Sweden and not frowned upon at all by ANY group of people within that society.

I am a well educated and successful woman who owns her own business, holds an MBA, volunteers at the animal shelter; by any account I am a 'normal' person and a productive part of society. However, my boyfriend is huge into cuckolding, and I have a 'sex-friend' that I am allowed to do anything with - either when my bf is there or even when he is not. There are 2 other guys as well that I have sex with on a somewhat regular basis - those are always with my bf present. My bf is an extremely successful and smart guy, incredibly good-looking, unbelievably wealthy and well-educated. His reasons behind liking cuckolding derives from a few levels - he likes that it is considered 'wrong' by our social norms, and therefore turns him on. He likes the idea that other guys want me badly, and get so turned on by me, but that he ultimately 'has' me (we are very much in love and have a perfect relationship on every level, complete honesty, have fun together - all of our friends see us as the perfect couple, although they don't know about our sexual lifestyle bc to be honest they would FLIP and quite certainly judge us for it -- we plan on getting married and having a family one day in the near future - and do not plan on giving up our sexual lifestyle at any point). The biggest thing for him is that he is able to give me everything I want - this is the biggest turn-on for him. Either it be new clothes, a vacation, a car - even a bigger cock or a hotter guy - his whole thing is that he wants to make sure I get everything and anything that I want. This is my first relationship where I had I've done cuckolding, and it is by far the best thing EVER and works sooo well for us! The fact that he wants to make sure I get everything I want - that it turns him on! - even if it is me f-ing an even hotter guy than him (which is hard for us to find!! ha!) - well, in some odd ways, it makes me feel more loved than I have ever felt before! I would totally recommend that anyone who is sexually open enough to try it, do it - but the only way it can work is to be totally 100% honest about everything from the beginning, and to lay down rules from the start. For instance, my bf and I have NO rules except emotions cannot be involved with me and the other guys. I can sleep in the same bed as my main sex-friend, I can do anything sexually with him that I want, as long as I tell my bf about it (usually I do in a sexual way and he gets very turned on by it!). I have my own rules - for instance I won't do anal with anyone but my bf - and if my bf is involved or watching there is no touching between him and the other guy (my bf is straight, but sometimes the other guys try to take it to a whole other level :-)

I was putting in a search for women with cuckold fetishes - i.e. women who love to get a boyfriend, so they can fuck all of his friends, without him knowing, and without the BF's consent. I have never met a pretty woman without this 'fetish'. A friend of mine's GF told me, him, and another guy friend, in a conversation about my cheating GFs that I should be happy for my ex GF because she must have liked the friends of mine she fucked.

Well , she may have liked them, but she was an evil two-faced liar, and did it for control, dominace, and humiliation over me, I suspect as well. Where is the web pages, and blogs about women bragging about cheating? If it's every woman *I* have ever met or talked to, it must be mainstream, isn't it?

I would love to hear these women express the great joy of destroying a man's life, having all his 'friends' betray him, make him lose his job because his girlfriend excepts his big-fat-boss's sexual offer,and no girl ever want to go out with him ever again, since he stuck his cock into such a dirty slut. Anybody have a link to the volumes of blogs those women must write?

I was putting in a search for women with cuckold fetishes - i.e. women who love to get a boyfriend, so they can fuck all of his friends, without him knowing, and without the BF's consent. I have never met a pretty woman without this 'fetish'. A friend of mine's GF told me, him, and another guy friend, in a conversation about my cheating GFs that I should be happy for my ex GF because she must have liked the friends of mine she fucked.

Well , she may have liked them, but she was an evil two-faced liar, and did it for control, dominace, and humiliation over me, I suspect as well. Where is the web pages, and blogs about women bragging about cheating? If it's every woman *I* have ever met or talked to, it must be mainstream, isn't it?

I would love to hear these women express the great joy of destroying a man's life, having all his 'friends' betray him, make him lose his job because his girlfriend excepts his big-fat-boss's sexual offer,and no girl ever want to go out with him ever again, since he stuck his cock into such a dirty slut. Anybody have a link to the volumes of blogs those women must write?

I think there's something to the idea of fetishes and kinks being eroticized sexual fears. Not true in every case, I'm sure, but I know a lot of my biggest turn-ons look a lot like the things I was most afraid of when it came to relationships when I was, say, 12.

What common fears are never eroticized? I can't think of a single one.

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Interesting post gaga1979. Perhaps cuckolding should be seen as taking the enjoyment of your partner's pleasure to a higher level. If you focus entirely on that, it wouldn't matter whether you were physically involved.