To anyone in Thinking about the child's situation: the "magic" solution for divorce without hurting the kid(s) is not when the divorce is, but how the parents act afterwards. If you're able to be friendly and nice to each other, and cooperate in parenting, instead of being psycho monsters or playing stupid "tell your mother I said" games, then your kid(s) will be OK.

I'm sorry, this needs to be said: if you don't want anyone (whether they thump bibles or not) to judge you for dressing up like a little girl, don't post pictures of it on a website.