Columns Dec 27, 2007 at 4:00 am

Risky Business

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"I'm a bi girl. My boyfriend feels that I can "be all things" to him and fulfill him completely, but he can't do the same for me. I truly feel that I could never be with a girl. I would always long for that masculine/feminine balance. Girls are lovely and sweet, but a girl just wouldn't make me feel the ways a boy does."

Do I need to look up "bisexuality" again or something? If you couldn't ever be with a girl... you're not bi... right?
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I think she meant she could not "just" be with a girl, whereas she could be with a man full time.
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Just because she's sexually attracted to women doesn't mean she could be sexually fulfilled with only a female partner. Perhaps she can be fulfilled with a single male partner, but a woman isn't enough for her.

Not all bisexual people are attracted to both sexes equally, and sexual attraction doesn't completely sum up sexual desire.
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Completely true. I'm crazy about women and think about them during every sexual encounter regardless of the sex I'm having. But my relationships with women never last more than six weeks or so (except when I dated a couple for 7 months). There is something missing emotionally in my connection with these hot women. But that doesn't mean that guys are enough sexually either. I can never get off thinking about a guy. So I date guys, think of women, and end up perfectly happy.
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Maybe I am missing something or maybe something was edited out of the original letter, but I don't understand SKARE's problem. They invite another woman into their bedroom and she seems to be worried about condoms and birth control. Last time I heard two women having sex would have little use for condoms and less use for birth control, but these are turbulent times so things may be different now.

Maybe she is worried about sharing the BF's dick, but he could use condoms with the OW and nothing with her. If she is just worried about BC with her BF then the 3-way part of the story is superfluous.
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Aw come on, Slim Jim! She says "Nothing gets me hotter than the thought of my boyfriend fucking SOMEBODY in front of me." It isn't specified whether the sombody has testicles or ovaries.
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