TMI
- No legs and a million dollars or A million legs and no dollars
- Vampire or Zombie
- What do you like to read when you poop?: everything
- Frank Gehry or Rem Koolhaas
- Where's your hairiest square inch?: head
Dec 28, 2012
Bondsman51 commented on Savage Love.
Many people have used coconut oil with condoms without them breaking. There are different types of oil & you shouldn't just lump them all together. From what I've read, the biggest reasons why condoms break are: not pinching the tip of the condom when putting it on. This adds more room in the condom and the penis is not forced against the end. Next, not enough lube. Lube (CO) should be placed on the penis before putting on the condom as well as on the outside of the condom or as a vaginal lubricant. It is anti-bacterial & anti- fungal and has helped many woman who have had yeast issues. If in doubt, try it first with a good athletic hand job and a condom and you will see for your self. Condoms have come a long way in quality & so have natural lubes.
Dec 27, 2012
Bondsman51 commented on Savage Love.
About the lube, here is a great suggestion. Coconut oil. Tastes good, smells good, organic, anti-bacterial, melts on contact with the body. Slippery at high speeds and luscious when you go slow. I've tried all kinds of lubes and this is truly the best for all types of sex and great for the skin. Massage it in everywhere!!!!! Have fun.
Oct 17, 2012
Bondsman51 commented on Savage Love.
Your still one of the best Dan & human too. Imagine that!!! Don't berate yourself too much. We have all had situations where we thought we should "go there" where ever that is, and upon later review decided there may be a better way of handling a situation. What this shows is that you are a man who can empathize with others and is willing to listen, even if others wish to take you down a notch. In my opinion this only raises my respect for your commentary. Hey Dan, your not perfect & neither am I. Thanks for being you.
Sep 28, 2012
Bondsman51 commented on SL Letter of the Day: Yes We Can!.
Now this is how I would want a woman to take my virginity. First lots of kissing. Than a little strip tease while he watches from the bed. Than pull his close off, all the time telling him how you are going to fuck his brains out. Lay on top of him and slide down and give him a nice sucking. Pull him down a little bit on the bed and climb up and have him suck your tits. Next....crawl up more and rub your pussy in his face and tell him how much you want his tongue inside you. By than he should be harder that a rocket. Slide back down & hump his rod with your lubed lips than slowly...... back down on top of his penis and very slowly, slide it in, inch by inch. Pull your self back off and lick that dick asking him if he wants it again inside or more licking and sucking. Once he's ready, slide yourself back on his dick and grab him with your vaginal muscles while kissing him and telling him how great it feels having him inside. That's when you should start the slow motion of fucking him. Once he blasts away, tell him what a big hunk of man he is and how you want him to take charge next time. If you haven't come, give him a treat and mastrubate in front of him. That just might get him hard again. If so, let him take you doggie style. Ahhhhhhhhh do I remember those days.
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Aug 23, 2012
Bondsman51 commented on Savage Love.
The first one is easy, to the Mitt & Paul lover, get over it & wish them well. Sheesh.
I'm surprised there aren't more people commenting on the ungrateful friend/lover. What an ass he is. Here it is, he has a friend who enjoys indulging him and he doesn't make a point to please her too? What planet is he from? Most guys in his position would be ever so grateful for just a partial helping out with his needs. I'd have one more conversation with him and find out what's behind the non-mutual compliance & than explain that you want your fair share too. I've found that if you get your woman off first it will end up being a win-win situation.
Than again, maybe he's a closet submissive and you need to order him to do your bidding. It that doesn't work, than except your lot in life with this cad or fine another more deserving friend or lover.
I'm surprised there aren't more people commenting on the ungrateful friend/lover. What an ass he is. Here it is, he has a friend who enjoys indulging him and he doesn't make a point to please her too? What planet is he from? Most guys in his position would be ever so grateful for just a partial helping out with his needs. I'd have one more conversation with him and find out what's behind the non-mutual compliance & than explain that you want your fair share too. I've found that if you get your woman off first it will end up being a win-win situation.
Than again, maybe he's a closet submissive and you need to order him to do your bidding. It that doesn't work, than except your lot in life with this cad or fine another more deserving friend or lover.
Aug 15, 2012
Bondsman51 commented on Savage Love.
For both letters, it always boils down to me, can't people just be sexual? I mean really???? I guarantee you, that at any given moment in time, with the right person, you would be surprised what you might do. It's your life, don't let others define who you are or what you should like. Many woman can't orgasm with just a penis humping inside her. Maybe she needs a vibe on her clit or her ass spanked. How is that any different than a guy who needs his ass fingered, his nipples kissed, or his balls smacked. As long as it is safe, fun, and consensual.........have at it!!!!!!!! Enjoy yourself for once in your life, you have less time than you may think.
Jul 18, 2012
Bondsman51 commented on Savage Love.
@19 you got that right. Attitude can really go a lot further than technique.
Another couple of ideas. What about a vibrator added into the mix. Use that puppy on his balls, dick, nipples, & if you haven't tried it already, stick it up his ass........that will get his attention.
I can highly suggest the 69 position. Grind that pussy in his face and come all over him. Than it will be his turn. Let him come on your belly, tits, face and show that you love it. Trust me, if none of these ideas get him going, he ain't into oral or you.
Another couple of ideas. What about a vibrator added into the mix. Use that puppy on his balls, dick, nipples, & if you haven't tried it already, stick it up his ass........that will get his attention.
I can highly suggest the 69 position. Grind that pussy in his face and come all over him. Than it will be his turn. Let him come on your belly, tits, face and show that you love it. Trust me, if none of these ideas get him going, he ain't into oral or you.
Jul 5, 2012
Bondsman51 commented on Savage Love.
Lower your standards????? If this guy only thinks that women are visual, than he has more problems than getting laid. I think he should just get himself a fleshlight and move on.
Come on now, there are a lot of amazing woman out there. Intelligent, funny, athletic, artsy, you name it and are attractive in more ways than outside, temporary appearances. Get involved in life, hike, bike, politics, theatre, whatever and you will find yourself surrounded by wonderful woman. Ask them questions, learn about what they have in their heads, and maybe you won't end up alone in bed.
Come on now, there are a lot of amazing woman out there. Intelligent, funny, athletic, artsy, you name it and are attractive in more ways than outside, temporary appearances. Get involved in life, hike, bike, politics, theatre, whatever and you will find yourself surrounded by wonderful woman. Ask them questions, learn about what they have in their heads, and maybe you won't end up alone in bed.
Mar 1, 2012
Bondsman51 commented on O They Will Know We Are Christians....
In a time of need, you were not very Christ like.
I believe your first concerns should be with Love, Wisdom, & Compassion for the people to whom you are in contact. If you can't do that, than you should have excused yourself prior to officiating at this ceremony.
Here is a short quote from the Dali Lama. One which you should aspire too.
"It is necessary to help others, not only in our prayers, but in our daily lives. If we find we cannot help others, the least we can do is to desist from harming them."
Respectfully yours,
I believe your first concerns should be with Love, Wisdom, & Compassion for the people to whom you are in contact. If you can't do that, than you should have excused yourself prior to officiating at this ceremony.
Here is a short quote from the Dali Lama. One which you should aspire too.
"It is necessary to help others, not only in our prayers, but in our daily lives. If we find we cannot help others, the least we can do is to desist from harming them."
Respectfully yours,
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Play the "do this for me & I will do this for you" game. You might want to add having him tie your hands behind your back, than have him take the hairbrush that you masturbate with, and have him wack your butt a few times than stick it in your pussy. That should get him interested & if it doesn't, than DTMF & find someone who will listen to what you have to say. I'm very sure you will find plenty of men willing to listen to your needs.