commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Italian Teen's Girlfriend Comes Out & Dumps Him. Now What?
@2 "joined the eternal choir invisible!" I believe
@4 yes, I definitely look back on my first love fondly, as it was a good first relationship. TRISTE hopefully can find solace in the future that his ex-gf probably thinks of him fondly (as long as he keeps from being a jerk now)
@7 I too remember that feeling of absolute bereavement at the end of my first relationship when I was 19. I, like everyone else, got past it, got into other relationships, loved again, was broken hearted again, and am now in a very loving and stable relationship. I'd say to TRISTE that his feelings right now are totally legitimate. Also, in time, he'll hopefully come to think of his first love fondly while being in a different deeply loving relationship.
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Maybe Sex Just Isn't His Thing
I'd like to second BiDanFan's comment (also a bi girl, also a Dan fan over here).
I keep telling my male friends who are frustrated that they can't get laid that if they were willing to sleep with dudes they'd be getting laid.
For some reason they don't all appreciate my advice...