I want to ad some perspective about the concern you had for the young girls experimenting with Lego. From about the age of four I was sexually inquisitive. I tried to have sex with my 'boyfriend' at kindergarten. I knew that it was something that we probably shouldn't be doing and so we found a quiet corner of the playground to see what we could accomplish. I don't remember if kissing was involved it was more about trying to insert his tiny flaccid penis into my vagina. Later on at primary school various groups of girlfriends would fool around together making tissue paper penises that we would try and insert in each other. Again, done in secret. On a couple of occasions (when I was aged around 8) I would coerce younger friends into various types of sexual play.

The pendulum swung the other way in my teens and I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21. Now as a 34 yr old I have a relatively low libido.

I had assumed that it was natural and common for most children to experiment with sexual play, but after listening to the pod cast I can't help but think that I was damaged in some way that lead me to act in an adult manner at such a young age. The only things I can think to link it to was the easy access I had to sneaking glances at my dad's porno magazine collection (he was separated from my mum and lived in a house with other men who had a shared magazine collection in the lounge coffee table) and the fact that I remember from a young age hearing and seeing my mum and her partner engaging in a variety of sexual acts.