Dec 18, 2012 GArRo commented on SL Letter of the Day: Love Is....
For point 2... How does a woman blow a load on her partner's face? No snark, I'm just curious if I've missed out on a sexual experience.
Dec 10, 2012 GArRo commented on SL Letter of the Day: All Men Do It.
@2 - Another 20-year-old who is still learning how relationships work in the real world, instead of in fantasies. 20-year-olds of all genders go through it.
Nov 26, 2012 GArRo commented on Let's Crowdsource This One, Shall We?.
@16, he's not a paranoid asshole. Every single person alive--you, me, Dan, the LW, everyone, has at some point in their lives been surprised by something unfamiliar, and reacted in a less than optimal way. It's called being caught off-guard. He's a flawed human, just like the rest of us are.
Nov 20, 2012 GArRo commented on SL Letter of the Day: Having His Baby.
@7 - Yes, the MRA people are morons, but I come from a long, proud line of white trash from deep in shotgun-wedding country. I've seen women do this to my male family members. Yes, members is pluralized.

If I ever have a son, I'm going to teach him that women are to be respected and treated as equals, and that no means no, and all that good stuff. But I'm also going to teach him that some girls are batshit crazy and can fuck up your life.
Nov 15, 2012 GArRo commented on Hello There, Racists!.
This stuff is undeniably horrible, but most of these people are teenagers.

I certainly never had these racist sentiments at 18, but my worldview still had yet to be shaped by college and by adult relationships and by living in new cities. I wasn't a racist moron, but I was certainly a moron in a lot of other ways.

Let's not sink to their level. By all means, show the horrible things that people are saying, but black out their names.
Nov 13, 2012 GArRo commented on NOM's Suicide Pact.
I actually feel bad for these people.

When you have a life worth living, you sleep 56 hours a week, spend 40 to 50 hours a week at work, maybe 10 hours cooking and cleaning and doing errands, 5 or 6 hours at the gym or playing a sport to stay in shape, 15 to 20 hours doing things with your significant other, and hopefully devote 15 to 20 hours to a hobby or hobbies. There's really not that many hours left. And this is not a fancy jet-setting lifestyle.

If you actually have enough time to sit and brood over how much you hate the fags, formulate a plan, and follow through with it, there must be something missing in your life.
Oct 24, 2012 GArRo commented on A Crossdresser's Lament.
Wow. These comments are depressing. Dan is giving air-time to a person who is a little out of the ordinary, but still mostly normal. This air-time comes at the expense of absolutely no one. And yet Dan's fans feel this guy should be ashamed of himself (or herself, whatever pronoun this person prefers) because some people suffer a little bit more.

Here's a hint, people. Dan's as popular as he is because he is respectful to people of all genders and sexual orientations, including straight males.
Oct 23, 2012 GArRo commented on Report: Romney Secretly Promised Log Cabin Republicans That He Would Pass ENDA In Exchange for Group's Endorsement.
If this is true, it's a good thing. It means that the act will be passed no matter who wins. But forgive me if I'm a little cynical about Mitt's sincerity.
Oct 15, 2012 GArRo commented on SL Letter of the Day: Sex Worker vs. Waitress.
And this is why I love Dan. He can be respectful and professional while he tells someone in no uncertain terms that they're being a jackass.
Oct 3, 2012 GArRo commented on Savage Love.
Why do women prefer douchebags? Most of them don't. But we're men, we don't learn our lesson until it has been beaten into our heads.

For some reason we spend our early 20s chasing after women who don't really want us. Then at some point, we either realize that we wasted 2 or 3 of the best years of our lives chasing the wrong women, or else one woman treats us so badly that we go "Wait a minute, I'm allowed to choose the women I date/fuck instead of just being thankful this one woman lets me fuck her."

Once we have that epiphany, we realize that a woman who likes douchebags is not worth it. Unfortunately, men are stubborn and we have to learn things the hard way.