Jan 4 Jaymz commented on We Still Get Great Comments (From Great Commenters) Here On Slog.
@25 and others - I use my real, full name with my local newspaper online comments so my neighbors will know how I feel about certain topics. I think there is a place for anonymity, and SLOG posters tend to do a pretty good job policing the occasional bad apple in the group - self regulation seems to work here, mostly.
Jan 4 Jaymz commented on We Still Get Great Comments (From Great Commenters) Here On Slog.
@23 - agreed. Kim's comments on religion and "Mr. Mile High" and his Denver-centric somewhat conservative outlook both are missed. I still check in; not too bad, really.
Dec 23, 2016 Jaymz commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: New To America & Ready To Get Laid.
LOVE the comments about interacting in low pressure mixed gender groups to better understand the male/female dynamic. Also, remember to cultivate male friends - they can help, and will introduce you around.
Dec 19, 2016 Jaymz commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Cutting Hair & Cutting Breaks.
@4 - I mis-remembered: It was the end of the second paragraph of No.3 by Dan.... again, dammit!
Dec 19, 2016 Jaymz commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Cutting Hair & Cutting Breaks.
Further to @3 - am I the only one who looked and looked for a beginning parenthesis to complete that final mark at the end of the second paragraph? Dammit - I hate have a grammar fetish....
Sep 12, 2016 Jaymz commented on Crude Anti-Obama Stickers Seen on Lockers During Tour of Police North Precinct.
I understand the vitriol and baiting going on here due to the chance sighting of two locker door stickers, but just in case Ansel is checking in from time to time - what about the building? Is it OK as is? Would repairs do the job - maybe some expansion and remodeling instead of replacement? Any legitimate gripes about the facility? You saw it - what do you think?
Sep 7, 2016 Jaymz commented on A Marxist Walks into a Fancy Cocktail Bar....
I had a fabulous time with Murray Stenson behind the bar at Canon years ago when he taught me all about Rye Whiskey - gave me lots of history and let me sample three, then made me a classic Old Fashion with the one I picked. I hope it hasn't changed TOO much since then....
Aug 17, 2016 Jaymz commented on No. Do Not Do It. Do Not Put This in Your Mouth. No Matter What..
Admission - every so often I eat the Campbell's Chunky Chicken Corn Chowder with a squirt of sriracha sauce. Not bad; maybe it will preserve me from the inside....
Aug 11, 2016 Jaymz commented on Savage Love.
After 20 years of marriage, I suspect LW#1 gets turned on when he sees the wife get all dressed up to go out - so good advice to plan something specific for sex; maybe a dress up date at home.

As for LW#2 - he said 4 1/2 years ago he preferred monogamy; seems misguided to enter a relationship hoping he will reconsider at a later date. It may not have been wasted time for either of them, but seemed doomed from the start. Time to move on.

LW#3 - Yes, your clueless ecosexual should shower already, but a wet washcloth by the bed is good too...
Aug 2, 2016 Jaymz commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Men In Her Life.
Kids involved? Normally you would include that, so I assume not...