saxfanatic
report this user
Dec 6 saxfanatic commented on Savage Love.
Well, I wouldn't have gone for the gay days at Disneyland any more than the straight ones but I feel even older and further out of touch to find out - only now - that they exist.
Nov 30 saxfanatic commented on Savage Love.
FWTF's description makes me think of a less common form of Tourette Syndrome - except that it would have made starting the relationship pretty unlikely. She doesn't mention when this behavior began.
Nov 18 saxfanatic commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Help! I'm Being Sext-Shamed By My Asexual Ex!.
I'm thinking of a car door that wasn't properly closed. You have to re-open it first then promptly slam it shut harder than you did the first time.

In the context of this, uh, "relationship", I recommend that you first re-establish the intimate union you had with her (in whatever-the-Hell form that was). Then COME, when that is done, you promptly blow it up in a way that leaves no doubt in anyone's mind.

I advise this because it's the only resolution to this annoying scenario that I would find personally satisfying.
Nov 8 saxfanatic commented on Savage Love Letters of the Day: What's In a Name?.
@32: Good point. I hear no kid in the schoolyard ever messes with little Aethelred.
Nov 7 saxfanatic commented on Savage Love Letters of the Day: What's In a Name?.
Lucifer's a helluva name.
Nov 5 saxfanatic commented on Savage Love Letters of the Day: Screwing Trump Supporters.
Can we please disabuse ourselves of the myth of merit-based lust? I remind you of Raoul Julia's immortal words from Tequila Sunrise: "No man should be judged for whatever direction his dick goes! That's like blaming a compass for pointing north, for Chrissake!"

Equally applicable to women, of course.
Nov 1 saxfanatic commented on Savage Love.
Let's face it: you can't be cuckolded if you have no-one to lose.
Nov 1 saxfanatic commented on Savage Love.
Holy fuck! This whole "cuck" meme is driving me nuts! Thanks for trying to rehabilitate the term, Dan, but I wonder if the trolls who hurl it actually mean to be derogatory. Trump and his followers project so much it's blinding.
Nov 1 saxfanatic commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: His Woes Are Similar to WOES Woes.
As a childless adult I've never had to endure a relationship cooling-off sexually due to child-rearing exhaustion. I have no problem believing it happens.

So although we can all agree (I think) that doing too little is a turnoff, does it necessarily mean that going above-and-beyond will be a turn-on? Is sexual arousal a reward that can be earned? If not, what then?

Oct 27 saxfanatic commented on Today in Third-Party Candidates.
I foresee the villagers of Green Town storming Chateau Stein armed with torches and pitchforks. The party rank-and-file must be furious.