commented on SL Letter of the Day: Profile & Courage
@4: No offense, but is it at all possible that your age and or attractiveness standards are set a bit too high for what you are seeking? This may be especially true, given that men have a harder time, prima facie, in finding poly friends than do their female partners.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: You've Done Nothing Wrong
I have a not-very-close colleague in my field of science whose vindictive soon-to-be-ex wife forwarded a ranty email containing photos of my colleague having sex with a much younger post-doc, to me and a dozen or so randomly chosen individuals. I felt horrible for him, even though he may or may not have been a cheating POS, because who in their right mind would do that to not only their cheating spouse, but to all his innocent colleagues who in no way, shape or form need to have that image burned into their brains?? Of course, he emailed me to apologize for her behavior, but I felt he and the rest of us were the victims at that point.