Apr 11
cgd commented on
John Corvino: It Gets Better.
By far his best effort yet.
I don't understand how he can say that all the priests etc. were wonderfully supportive (5 minutes into the video),
when earlier he said that priests told him to never act on his feelings (@ 1:15), which is IMHO heartless and cruel.
Then again I also don't understand how parishioners continue to support such cruelty.
Mar 27
cgd commented on
Be Careful What You Wish for on Prop 8 and DOMA.
I never thought most Americans would support gay marriage before they supported, say, basic health insurance for every citizen. Or excellent teachers for every child. Or some minimally decent reward for full-time work. In fact, for the last decade I assumed that the prominence of gay marriage as an issue would be an impediment to the pursuit of those other goals.
Boy, was I wrong. But this line of reasoning helps explain (although it doesn’t excuse) my own moral cowardice on gay marriage.
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Maybe America’s accelerated “evolution” on gay marriage proves that the ultimate taboo in our society is redistribution. As Martin Luther King Jr. learned near the end, securing legal equality turned out to be the easy part. Nobody had to write a check. Equal opportunity and economic justice are entirely different matters, requiring a nation to take even bigger leaps of empathy and imagination.
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Mar 26
cgd commented on
Be Careful What You Wish for on Prop 8 and DOMA.
@29 Bring on the backlash, I say; I'm tired of the lash.
Yeah I heard Dan Savage, like you, wring his hands about the backlash on Up with Chris Hayes this weekend. At worst, the absolute worst, the backlash will last one election cycle in some of the red states in 2014, and when the world doesn't end, 2016 will be like nothing ever happened. Just like with the repeal of Don't Ask, Don't Tell, it will be a complete non-event for homophobic heterosexuals. Marriage equality is now polling as a MAJORITY position. Have a little freaking courage!
Mar 26
cgd commented on
The 50 State Solution.
The 8-state solution would be the worst. Then it's state-by-state for the next 10 years (I'm guessing that's when SCOTUS would evolve again), and for the next states there's no training-wheel phase: it's either marriage or nothing, so states with marriage pull up the ladder behind them once they've gotten to the top and the rest can suck it.