commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Not a Rescue
Dude, I admire your ability to recognize someone in trouble and your intent in helping her out (that's yes, be a homewrecker... actually you won't be wrecking homes at all so don't worry about it) but be aware what you're getting into. There are lots of services out there for young adults (huge caveat: Depending on where you are) but knowing them, contacting them, and navigating them aren't always easy. Best of luck and hope you keep us updated.
commented on Florida Couple Faces Jail Time, Lifetime on Sex-Offender Registry, for Having Sex on a Beach
This can't be real. Can it? I mean, really, it can't. I mean, these are the same folks pressing to ban Sharia Law, yet they're the ones enforcing Sharia Law. Can't we get some right-wing nutso to defend them on those grounds? I mean, where's Rand Paul on the issue? I can't wait until he's asked.
"Seriously" though, I saw this late, and hope there's an uproar. Dan, any chance you can post the contact information of the people to whom we'd like to vent our rage? Thanks.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Sail Away
When I was in my 20s I was a basket-case. Ok, not a certifiable basket-case, but I had lots of emotional baggage that I didn't even realize needing unpacking. So though I could get women into bed with me, sex -or the prospects of sex, the post sex- left me in all sorts of emotional wreck . I'm going out on a limb here, but for a significant part of the American population, childhood and adolescence results in substantial emotional baggage, and not nearly enough people get the counseling that they need.
Or you could take #3 scientific angel.
Regardless, one thing that kills a boner in the long-term is panicking about no boner in the immediate term. As Dan said, don't fret it, take a break, give a boy time to breathe, and that boner will probably appear. And if it doesn't, it was never meant to be...