Dec 9, 2013
commented on Never Heard of 'Em
Haha...horrible band! File w/ Yum Yum Tree.
Sadly, I might just own too much of both s&itty bands
Oct 21, 2013
commented on SLLOTD: Open It, Already
My husband and I have done what we call Open Phases. Took us a while to figure out what work work for us. We went in to marriage, agreeing it would be open, but when I actually took advantage of this(3 years into marriage 7 years into relationship), he was not prepared for the jealousy/ anger that followed. (I may have been kind of a juvenile a-hole, rubbing it in his face, which...d'uh...isn't healthy)
Now we have new rules. If one of us is on vacation without the other, cool. If one is home while other is away on vacation, cool.
NO rubbing other's face in it. No inviting fwbs in to the relationship, etc.
Since my first and only foray in to Openness, I have not been compelled to take advantage again. If he has, he has followed the rules and left me unaware.
Every couple is different and NOT every couple can handle an open relationship....even if they think they can.