myStrangerFace Not enough like Twitter.

fannerz

Canada, eh.

Bio

I am a student Currently, I pay for this luxury One day, I hope to… more »

TMI

Wildrose or Staying Home (Lesbians only)
What keeps you up at night?: The internet, my friends, and my thoughts
Production or Devel
Meridian or Film Forum
Tushy or Tuchus

Refresh

May 11

fannerz commented on SL Letter of the Day: I'm Out.

Is this an American thing? I don't bat an eye at the "c-word" at all.

May 10

fannerz commented on SL Letter of the Day: Walk The Talk.

@10: Should I call up all my hot friends from college I haven't seen in years and tell them I still masturbate to them occasionally? I am sure they would appreciate being able to fully consent to being a fictional element in my solo sex life. And it would in no way harm our current relationship.

Mar 28

fannerz commented on SL Letter of the Day: Bonus Advice for SIS.

I don't know where the LW is writing from, but here in Canada, and I think Nevada where it's legal, ALL acts are discussed before hand. The encounter is scripted, so neither client nor the sex worker can be "surprised."

Feb 15

fannerz commented on Are You In the Mood For Love?.

@13: I was always confused by this fuck first mentality, until now. I figured as long as you don't top off two bottles at the table, you're fine. No fricken way I could girate after eating a meal like that... but my idea of filling is two squares of lasagna. Murica is weird.

Feb 13

fannerz commented on Are You In the Mood For Love?.

In what world is mac and cheese and appetizer?

Feb 5

fannerz commented on Another Attempt At a Grindr For Straights.

Oh Jesus, this is so dumb. If you are my friend and I want to bang with you (is that how the verb works?) you would already know. Because I would have told you. And we would have banged with each other already, if you also wanted to.

Jan 26

fannerz commented on SL Letter of the Day: Pop a Cap.

@3: If I found out a guy was checking me out at the pool because of the nylon on my head and not, say, my ridiculously exposed body in a swimsuit, I'd find it charming!

Jan 23

fannerz commented on Savage Love Episode 326.

@18: I think you can do both. Humans are complex and can hold multiple, even contradictory thoughts in mind. You can say "Fuck, that barely legal chick is hot" *and* "I am still ridiculously attracted to my partner of many decades, because of a long fostered mutual understanding and history." The problem comes when that second part is not articulated, and one or both partners simply assume that the other is aware. No. No one is ever just aware. If you think your wife/husband/triad of lovers is hot... TELL THEM.

Jan 23

fannerz commented on Access To Abortion Creates Stable, Two-Parent Families.

@5: That actually doesn't surprise me. After millennia of "sex = babies" we were suddenly free to have sex with no babies. And those first pills were HORRID. So there was more sex, with a not-so good pill.