The whole "why flaunt it with parades" argument really fucking annoys me.
Guess who else flaunts it with parades? Well, Irish Americans like my family, for one. Ireland never had parades on St. Patrick's Day. It was a religious observance. The first parade for St. Patrick's Day was actually in Colonial America as a way for oppressed Irish immigrants to show their solidarity, demonstrate their growing political clout, and have a little fucking PRIDE in their heritage. The first St. Patrick's Parade in the world was in Boston in 1737. The first St. Patrick's Day Parade in Ireland was in 1931, nearly two hundred years later.
Who else? What about Columbus Day? That celebration began as a way for oppressed Catholics in general, and later oppressed Italian Catholics in particular, to show their political strength by celebrating someone that (most of) the rest of America would also honor.
And Cinco de Mayo? It's not Mexican Independence Day. It celebrates the Mexican Army's victory over a vastly more powerful French Army in 1862. It was annually a tiny celebration in the Mexican province of Puebla (not even celebrated throughout Mexico, just one province). Mexican-Americans in California blew it up into a big deal in the U.S. as a way of showing their strength and celebrating their cultural PRIDE.
Gay Pride Parades also celebrate our strength, unity, and yes, our fucking PRIDE. Are we flaunting it? Hell, yeah! Of course we are. Just like Irish Americans and Italian Americans and Mexican Americans flaunt their pride as a way of demonstrating their clout.
My essay on the subject a few years ago....
http://biggayfrathouse.typepad.com/blog/…
If an inmate can be denied conjugal visits but cannot be denied the right to marry, then clearly the courts have already acknowledged that procreation is not an intrinsic part of marriage. The current SCOTUS will probably sidestep the issue for the time being in favor of a narrower ruling, but a future one probably will agree that same-sex couples cannot be denied marriage allowed to similarly situated opposite sex couples.
Also, @Siddha, while Communist Russia was anti-religion, it was also virulently homophobic. Gay people were routinely thrown into gulags. Your attempt to marry the two -- pun intended -- is flat out false.