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I hate living in Seattle or I wish I lived in Seattle
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May 17

xjuan commented on SL Letter of the Day: Insane Demands.

@126 Sorry, LW, I'm still not convinced. You don't need any of those mementos you are requesting. You should respect the other woman's privacy, since she's never asked to be involved in this. After reading your comment, I still believe it inconvenient for you to be involved with this guy. Maybe you don't want revenge, but you certainly are trying to realize a long lost dream. I'm afraid you lost your bus long ago. Better go and look for real love somewhere else.

Ps: Something tells me you're going to ignore Dan's answer and all these comments and go ahead with your plan. You feel no remorse and can find all the justifications for your behavior. I'm sorry for the sexless wife and his apparently inept husband.

May 15

xjuan commented on SL Letter of the Day: Insane Demands.

I wonder why LW is willing to be the mistress after so many years. I suppose she's got no relationship of her own and after many years is still trying to get what she missed back then when this all started.

She's looking for revenge and needs those trophies as mementos of her triumph over her competitor. This is just a power trip.

She's trouble, no doubt. I hope her friend doesn't bites the hook.

May 2

xjuan commented on SL Letter of the Day: Mr. Wonderful.

I totally agree: DTMFA. However, I fear she'll never do it because this letter seems to have been written by the a-hole himself and not by the girl. I don't know: I got that feeling...

Apr 20

xjuan commented on Understanding the Bombing Suspects.

Urgutha @2, I usually agree with you, but this time I must not. Although I agree that most people is born esencially good, there is a strain of 'bad' people. Although society has a strong influence in the formation of one's character, as well as family, there are intrinsic tendencies which each one of us serves sooner or later. Life has a way to put us in front of great decisions and it is then when we get tested. Tamerlan may have had this original tendency towards damaging others whereas Jahar seenu to have been taken through the wrong path. Y his brother, or so I believe. But, in the end, when little brother got tested, he failed. Miserably.

Apr 18

xjuan commented on CNN's 15 Minutes of Shame.

@11 Very well put. And very well put.

Apr 7

xjuan commented on SL Letter of the Day: Porn Conundrum.

@36: The problem is that life is not perfect. At the time of the request, their relationship might be in good terms. How do they know it'll be like that forever? Who knows? Maybe he or she gets involved in some weird situation or a crime that brings police to either of their homes and during the investigation they might stumble upon the tapes. They'll add that to whatever else they want to acuse them of. And if they didn't have anything yet, now they do. It can certainly ruin their lives. Keeping record (graphic and physical record) of something now considered a crime is bad judgement in any case. So, again: destroy them before they hunt you back.

Apr 7

xjuan commented on SL Letter of the Day: Porn Conundrum.

The letter is dated 2006. I wonder what LW did at the time. But, if he followed Dan's advice, he probably kept the tapes and still watches them from time to time. Perhaps he still reads SLOG, in which case, he should be freacking out right now after all this comments. BURN THE TAPES before something really bad happens to you and the ex. Teens tend to make stupid decisions. Once they reach adulthood, they must try to avoid the consequences of such bad judgement.

Mar 19

xjuan commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Gateway Toy.

Troll aside, I think I know how can Dan repay the posting of Terry's intimate secrets: a new and even better buttplug!

Mar 10

xjuan commented on SL Letter of the Day: Double Bi Standard.

I believe is not just a math issue, as counted by @3. I also believe that the social perception about this is continually evolving and more people identify as Bi or tend to explore this part of their sexuality. More and more people admits to have same-sex sex and relationships but not necessarily LTRs.

Regarding the current letter, Dan is right: BF feels a guy as a threat to his position in the relationship whereas a girl is perceived more like a treat.