9:59 AM yesterday John M commented on Savage Love.
Maybe I have been reading too much Savage over the years but when things started getting really serious with my boyfriend and got to a place of general trust I just gave him blanket consent to do anything to me in my sleep that I would be OK with when I was awake. Suck me off, cum on my face, whatever, he gave me the same.

And you know what? He likes it. I normally wake up before him and just lay in bed with him and when it's a reasonable time for us to get our morning started he never complains about waking up with his dick in my mouth even though he didn't consent at the time.

My feeling is that if your partner is OK with it and given consent when he was able to for these activities don't worry about it.
Nov 23, 2012 John M commented on This Sunday Brings the Broadcast of the Lifetime Movie in which Lindsay Lohan Pretends to be Elizabeth Taylor.
@2 I seriously think she should move to NV and become an actual whore. Just think how much money should would make, even at insane prices, say $5,000 there has to be a sizable market of men and women that would pay that to say "Yeah, I fucked Lindsay Lohan."
Sep 6, 2012 John M commented on This Is Grant.
I bet he just looks adorable with his legs in their air and a cock in his butt begging to be fucked harder but the crying afterwards is probably a big turn off.
Aug 9, 2012 John M commented on SL Letter of the Day: Loves a Man with a Good Nipple.
I'm a little confused by the nipple thing and his use of the word tits.

I think the word he is looking for is pecs, he likes guys with nice pecs.
Mar 22, 2012 John M commented on Squeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!! (Or: Dan Savage Appears on Next Week's Episode of RuPaul's Drag Race).
I'm going to be a little disappointed if Helvetica Bold isn't at the judges table.
Jan 12, 2012 John M commented on The Joys of Home Ownership.
I had this happen to me in my highrise condo. I just happened to be home when it happened and noticed it with in minutes. I was pretty horrified as to what would have happened if I was at work.
Jun 26, 2011 John M commented on Keith Olbermann, Karl Rove and Dan Savage Walk Into a Broadway Theater....
I find the idea that one could bump into Karl Rove just going about your daily life as a decent human being deeply unsettling.

It feels like a misfortune that should only be the result of poor life choices.
Jun 14, 2011 John M commented on What Do You Think About the Sarah Palin Movie Poster?.
That looks like a beautiful place that some asshole stuck an oil pipeline in.
Jun 10, 2011 John M commented on Anthony Weiner Isn't the Only Exhibitionist* In Congress.
I've been wondering why the media seems much more obsessed with David Vitter who committed actual crimes in his sex scandal when the worse Weiner can be accused of is the nebulous "conduct unbecoming to the House of Congress". Aaron Schock shirtless spread seems a much more apt comparison, sure, he has a totally hot body, he should be in a profession that requires not wearing any clothing, like gay porn, but he choose to be a congressman and I don't think it is appropriate for a congressman to be posing for beefcake photos in a magazine while in office. If we are going to let the David Vitter thing slide, and Aaron Schock's thing slide, we should let the Weiner thing slide as well.

Assuming they don't go after Vitter, which they should, as you know, he was committing crimes, we don't need more ethics investigations, what we need is Pelosi and Boehner to stand stand up together at the speakers podium, bang their gavels and say "Children, stop taking damn photos of yourselves without your clothes on, you are fucking members of congress for christ's sake."
Jan 10, 2011 John M commented on Lunchtime Quickie: God Still Hates Fags, Now Also Applauds Shooting of Gabrielle Giffords.
Considering that Giffords lived despite being shot in the head at close range, in part because of the quick actions of her gay staffer this makes God seem pretty incompetent.