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Aug 13 gonzo commented on Savage Love.
The truth about ANY two people getting together (as I see it anyway), is that no one, including both people involved, know how it will go. They may have a short blissful union. They may have sixty years of hell and each wish the other dead. Either of them could die tonight. No one knows and they are the ones who get to live it and decide what it is. Other people saying this or that should or should not be have too much time on their hands.
Aug 13 gonzo commented on Savage Love.
@ Pate: If I were you, I would compile all the responses here and send them to her. She is certainly overwhelmed in her current circumstances and may not know what she feels about you right now- an extra load? source of help? who knows what? Reading the posts here might help her see her/your situation more clearly and be able to express that to you- whatever it is.
Aug 13 gonzo commented on Savage Love.
Right with you @ 19. "puppy play", "pup bros", "puppy doms",.... LOL. This is why I read Savage Love. GREAT answer. It should be required reading of all people who ever entertain romantic ideas; would save so much heartache & needless suffering.
May 21 gonzo commented on Savage Love.
Sitters should also consider the long term consequences, as in how does this play out at 70 or 80. To a young or middle aged healthy person a UTI is an inconvienience. Go to any assisted living or nursing home and and ask them about UTIs; you will get an ear full. There, they are a whole different animal- very common, harder to control and in some cases life threatening.
May 7 gonzo commented on Savage Love.
Agree with @16 concerning cis, trans, natal, etc. Reminds me of the recently rerun Doonsbury strip where a birth is earnestly announced by the preschool aged sister as "it's a baby woman" Made me laugh out loud.
Apr 9 gonzo commented on Savage Love.
Mr. 40ish deserves the truth. It doesn't have to be intentionally hurtful but it does need to be honest, especially if she hopes to have a friendship with the dude at some point later. Dishonest feedback helps no one......I have the same honesty problem with the first letter (SOS geezer): Dan says: "If your inner life amounts to a double life, that's a problem." and "If your zones of privacy and autonomy grow so large that your spouse doesn't know who you are anymore, that's a problem.".....I suspect the wife might vote yes on both of those.
Lots of interesting comments.
Feb 12 gonzo commented on Savage Love.
@7 Defining purity as virginity is insanity.
Sep 4, 2013 gonzo commented on Savage Love.
@49 That gave me a good belly laugh!
Sep 4, 2013 gonzo commented on Savage Love.
I agree that cull is reacting like someone whose property has been taken, but it does seem odd that it's the woman's boyfriend who is laying down the law for her. Shouldn't she be making those kinds of decisions of her own free will? He is perfectly free to decline to date her if she chooses not to be monogamous. Or maybe she is just using the new boyfriend as an excuse to let down cull.
May 29, 2013 gonzo commented on I, Anonymous.
@5: thanks for the belly laugh! HAH!
 
 

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