May 10 truck commented on SL Letter of the Day: Nip That Three-Way in the Bud.
I'm freaked out by the merged dogs/children ... is it like brundledog or do you just keep the kids in a cage?
May 3 truck commented on Ted Cruz Had a Terrible Monday And He's About to Have a Worse Tuesday.
All I see is a group of people with learning disabilities.
Apr 18 truck commented on Defining Cheating Down, Down, Down....
Notwithstanding the potential discomfort (or pleasure) of having a thumb stuck in the butt, I can't imagine how anyone has the flexibility to get their thumb in their own butt while standing without certain discomfort in their wrist, arm, shoulder, neck and back.

I would recommend finding some other accommodating person for that.
Apr 2 truck commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Affairs We Don't Hear About.
@15 " I've said again and again that these marriages that 'saved' by cheating probably shouldn't be 'saved' at all."

Isn't the point here that the kids' needs must surely be the priority and providing them with a stable home, good schooling, etc. might require that the parents remain married?
Mar 24 truck commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Should I Stay Or Should I Go?.
FUCK. One of the myths that sustains itself is that sexual, passionate, romantic love somehow trumps platonic, familial love. They are two different things. Most people seem to need both to function but there appears to be some unwritten rule that combining the sexual, passionate, romantic and familial is the only jackpot.

You seem to need both, that is reasonable, but your partner of 12 years can't offer the sexual and passionate, only the familial; accept that. And accept that she must find her way to deal with your right to find the others elsewhere; she seems to have done that. So, while being as sensitive about it as possible, you need to get on with a new phase in your partnership based on what is on offer there and allow yourself passion and sex. If you are worried about the state of your newly platonic partnership, then you need to work on allowing it to re-establish in its new form: that requires some space and time, and a little heartache.
Mar 23 truck commented on Savage Love.
LW1, if you are truly religious then can't you tell the wife it is her duty to be better in bed? Or, if you have respect for her, then get you both some therapy and/or a divorce.
Mar 19 truck commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Longest Read.
@31 wise words about the hamster.

BULLET: your head is milling over tons of things because the guy checked the boxes for so many areas and you find it difficult (as many of us have and still do) to reconcile that with the fact that there were several deal-breakers.

You recognise that there are still issues you need to get a handle on, and that is a healthy insight.

From a personal perspective it is a bitch that the one that really hit the spot was still not a good enough match to make it work but your challenge is to find a way to let go and work on your own outstanding issues so you are ready for someone with whom it will work.

Please work more on precis ;-)
Mar 15 truck commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Off the Couch, Onto the Sheets.
Another factor that hasn't really been explored in this thread is that therapeutic effects can vary over time. Typically the client experiences the greatest sense of elation about having overcome her/his issues close to the conclusion of the acute therapeutic phase. This wellbeing is maintained easily at first but is more likely to wane if/when sessions cease.

In short, the glow wears off after a while.

Putting the rather naive attachment to the therapist aside (he/she really shouldn't cross that boundary, and you shouldn't ask him) CYGMSA must give it time - longer than six months to see if she is fully coping with her emotions/life/issues - before she considers that she is fully fixed, she should have a follow-up session in a few months.

From what I've seen, getting a good therapist (one that works for you) is more difficult than finding a new partner.

Mar 14 truck commented on This Will Be On The Test.
Do you have to know these if you get stopped by a traffic cop?
Mar 8 truck commented on About Those Consent Is Simple PSAs....
My takeway from the PSA was to consider that the onus is on the instigator to seek active signs of consent rather than wait for a no as the characters portray. It could have been made more obvious I guess but surely this plants the idea in their (mainly young men's) heads to realise that invading personal space without invitation is inappropriate.
@11 yes the consent and tea is better.