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Mar 22, 2012 Sarah Frantz commented on SL Letters of the Day: Coming Out Kinky & BDSM as a Sexual Orientation.

Thank you, ravished @22, that's exactly what I meant. Being out to colleagues/friends as kinky doesn't mean that the kinkster is going to whip people in public or practice any sex acts in front of a non-consenting audience. When being kinky is something that you ARE, rather than something that you DO, it's incredibly freeing to be able to talk freely about the dynamics of your relationships in ways that non-kinksters (straight or out-gay) take for granted. Having a submissive kneel contentedly at their dominant's feet while at a friend's house is no more shoving their actual sex lives in the faces of other people there as having two gay people holding hands is.

@33 How can you read the second letter and believe that their kink is cultural and not biological? Ditto SUB in previous post. Ditto many kinksters who express the idea that the gender of their partner doesn't matter as much as the kinky activity to their sexual satisfaction. How/why is that cultural and not biological?

Mar 21, 2012 Sarah Frantz commented on SL Letters of the Day: Coming Out Kinky & BDSM as a Sexual Orientation.

@5 "At the same time, the only thing I worry about BDSM or D/s play is involving others in your sex life. As long as you don't do that to unprepared people then great!" You know that's EXACTLY what homophobes say about coming out as GLBT, right?

Jan 3, 2012 Sarah Frantz commented on Maybe Rick Santorum and Newt Gingrich Should Have a Lincoln-Douglas-Style Debate About Contraception.

That Duggar pic made me shudder. And consider: with 10 boys (out of 19 children), the statistical likelihood of one of those boys being gay, especially one of the younger ones, is very very high. Poor little sod.

May 24, 2010 Sarah Frantz commented on Gay Couple From Washington State Victims of Probable Hate Crime in Oklahoma.

Is there any way Dan can confirm that address for us? Don't want to be sending money into a void, but would love to help these men out in some small way.

May 23, 2010 Sarah Frantz commented on Gay Couple From Washington State Victims of Probable Hate Crime in Oklahoma.

@43 I think because OK probably doesn't have hate crimes legislation on the books? I'm pretty sure I read that somewhere.

May 22, 2010 Sarah Frantz commented on Gay Couple From Washington State Victims of Probable Hate Crime in Oklahoma.

@29 Yes, that's an amazing idea. DH wants to announce this at church tomorrow to get a collection going for them, but where to send money?

Apr 8, 2010 Sarah Frantz commented on SL Letter of the Day: Gay Porn Recommendations.

Seriously, if she wants really hot gay sex, she should check out what's known as m/m romance: romance novels written by women for women about gay men. Say anything you want about exploitation and appropriation, it's totally explicit sex, hot as anything, AND you gets all the emotional connection you could want.

I'd suggest K.A. Mitchell, especially her COLLISION COURSE and NO SOUVENIRS. There's also James Buchanan, especially her (yes, her) HARD FALL, and INLAND EMPIRE, and THE GOOD THIEF. Also Brooke McKinley's SHADES OF GREY, Jane Seville's ZERO AT THE BONE, and Heidi Cullinan's SPECIAL DELIVERY. All of these can be found online and downloaded and read as e-books.

Go to http://dearauthor.com/wordpress/author/s… for reviews and more recommendations (yes--full disclosure, that is me).