Nov 8, 2012
college dude from madison commented on
SL Letter of the Day: The Hole Truth.
A wonderful couple did a hilarious AMA about their experience with this on Reddit about this recently. Fucking great stuff.
I would disclose after intercourse #1, after he's seen that you're totally functional and that nothing seems out of place. Might be a little mind-blowing for pillow talk, but a "hey, by the way..." would fit in pretty easily (hehe, fit in)
Sep 10, 2012
college dude from madison commented on
SL Letter of the Day: Shock and Ew.
I've always assumed skid-marks are due to bad wiping strategy. As stated above, guys are going to have more bum hair and have to be more careful. Wiping while standing up is a bad option; sitting down and leaning over pulls your cheeks apart and gives you better access. (Also, consider shaving your bum! It feels fantastic and makes running feel soooo much comfier IMHO.)
Jul 3, 2012
college dude from madison commented on
Other Advice Columnists Wonder Why They Get So Few Questions From Men.
@24 That depends on how you're defining "warped shit." If you're talking about how the "mechanics" don't really reflect reality (anal without visible rimming/fingers/lube/foreplay etc.) or how a lot of mainstream porn ignores or over-simplifies female pleasure, then the "problem" is easily remedied by the guy knowing that porn is largely to visual stimulate men and not serve as an example of proper technique.
If by "warped" you mean kinks, then I don't know if I can agree with you. People are into what they are into
Nov 21, 2011
college dude from madison commented on
SL Letter of the Day: Sex and the Demanding Boyfriend.
Perfect response. Patting her on the back for being GGG, providing perspective, and not piling on an overzealous 23 year old who probably isn't used to having a sex partner available constantly, while still giving the sarcastic (but practical) response he deserves for his whining.
It's almost like Dan has had some practice at this stuff.