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Aurora Erratic isn't it obvious? .
Aug 14 Aurora Erratic commented on SL Letter of the Day: Code Breakers.
It's not either "crisis of meaning" or "all figured out." Most people are more in the "figure it out as I go along" mindset. In fact, I think certitude is the more unusual state.

Maybe work on your own struggles until you feel competent in your ability to figure it out as you go along, before getting back into a relationship?
Aug 6 Aurora Erratic commented on Savage Love.
I think DOMME wants to blow up her marriage, but doesn't have the guts to say so, even to herself. So she'll get caught, then it'll all be out of her control. Bonus, it'll hurt the hell out of him for the ways he has disregarded and insulted her for years!
I don't have a lot of sympathy for this guy but hurting a person unnecessarily - a person she describes as her "best friend!" - is just not the way to go. If you want to end it, end it cleanly.
Aug 5 Aurora Erratic commented on SL Letter of the Day: This Cheater Will Never Stop Cheating.
TSM - I recognize a lot of this from my MUCH younger self. I was only stuck three years, and thankfully didn't have children, but the feeling sounds familiar. Here's how I got out:
I recognized (finally) that I had to do something totally different from what I had been trying and failing to do. So I moved 1200 miles away. That worked. Drastic, yes, but the best thing I ever did.
And, yes, I got into counseling - after I moved. I learned that I was depressed and that having external drama distracted me from my inner pain. I also learned how to "sit" with feelings: not act on them, not try to do something to make them go away. Just feel my feelings.The only way out of those feelings is right through them. No over, no under, no around.
Think of it as akin to addiction. It doesn't matter if it seems like you SHOULD be able to get out just by willpower. "Should" isn't anything to do with it. This is consuming the only life you and your children have. Do what it takes to get away.
Jul 30 Aurora Erratic commented on SL Letter of the Day: Love and Lyme.
Interview who? Shop around where? If you don't know how to find an escort, Doc, maybe choose a different question to answer.
Jul 30 Aurora Erratic commented on Savage Love.
I'd be pretty pissed off if a guy I was dating didn't mention he was in a committed relationship - open or not - until our THIRD date. Before any dates is best, but there is no excuse for not bringing it up on the first date.
Jul 29 Aurora Erratic commented on I Joined ReaganBook, a Facebook for Bigots.
"Say anything you want! Tear down the walls of tyranny!
Hey, can we get rid of these liberal trolls?"

All the LOLs.
Jul 16 Aurora Erratic commented on SL Letter of the Day: Orgasm Pressure.
This advice is not at all likely to be helpful. It sounds like his shy prostate happened before the pressure - not that the pressure is helpful, either.
#1 has better suggestions.
Jul 9 Aurora Erratic commented on Cupcakes Are Not Over.
Cupcakes will never be over, so long as I live.
Jun 30 Aurora Erratic commented on Every Child Deserves a Mother and a Father.
The search history is suspicious, but also: the daycare was in the father's work building. It seems like he would have realized what happened when he went to pick his son up from daycare...Somehow he forgot on BOTH ends?
Jun 19 Aurora Erratic commented on "If America Laughs at This, America Is Beyond Redemption".
It's about time. I've always thought it's weird how movies and TV shows act as if abortion doesn't exist.
 
 

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