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Aurora Erratic isn't it obvious? .
May 19 Aurora Erratic commented on SL Letter of the Day: Squirt Toys Incorporated.
Squicky, really? Are we back to the dropped can of ham? We know you aren't into chicks, Dan, no need to keep making the point.
May 17 Aurora Erratic commented on SL Letter of the Day: I Like Big Dicks and I Cannot Lie.
I'm with @12, PennyLady.
May 8 Aurora Erratic commented on SL Letter of the Day: Verify.
I agree with Dan, but wanted to add for future: your rules and expectations count, too, TOP. You don't have to go with something that's not sitting right with you just because somebody else's relationship allows (or demands) it.
May 8 Aurora Erratic commented on Savage Love.
@94 - I know from past experience that "I'm flattered but we are not a match" is likely to get "But whyyyyyyy?" as a response. "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm married" usually ends the conversation, so I have used it, even, sometimes, when it wasn't true. Is that ideal? Nope, but sometimes I just want to say no and be done with it, and I take the easy way to make the attention stop.
Apr 27 Aurora Erratic commented on Here's What You Should Do Instead of Getting Gay Married!.
That's a pretty tired old argument from fresh-faced Ryan Anderson.
Apr 15 Aurora Erratic commented on SL Letter of the Day: Lock Down.
"Lockdown" sounds really romantic, huh?
Apr 5 Aurora Erratic commented on SPONSORED CONTENT.
I wouldn't mind these as much if they hadn't gotten rid of most of their interesting writers at the same time.
Mar 23 Aurora Erratic commented on SL Letter of the Day: Burned.
Don't drink things that are on fire.
Mar 12 Aurora Erratic commented on SL Letter of the Day: Sure You Don't..
If SAD happens to find a guy who genuinely doesn't seem interested in porn, there's a good chance that he's not all that interested in sex, either, and after the new-relationship frequency wears off, their real-life sex life will dwindle. Kind of a crappy trade-off, so deal with the porn.
She says it was "interactive," though, which seems significantly more cheat-y than just looking at pictures or videos.
Mar 8 Aurora Erratic commented on Savage Love.
Scrolling past whatever-that-was, to respond to an comment WAY upthread: @47NopeN, I am sorry for your situation. I think your depression is coloring your view of yourself, since attractiveness comes in many flavors, not just Victoria's-Secret-model.
Once-a-week sex certainly doesn't sound like your husband is not attracted to you, only that he has a lower drive. If you read Savage Love, you know that mismatched drive is a very common problem.
You don't say if you love your husband or if the marriage makes you happy in other ways. If it doesn't, then don't let your perceived lack of attractiveness stop you from leaving it! First, as I said, there are many kinds of attractiveness, and I think it likely you posses some of them, even if you don't see it; and second, you sound bitterly unhappy. You can stay where nothing will change, or you can take the path which might lead to change. Being lonely alone is actually less painful than being lonely with someone.
 

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