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Nov 12, 2014 Gay Movie Fan commented on SL Letter of the Day: Two Bottoms.
I never got this "I'm only a bottom" stuff. I have been in several relationships. When my partners were into being bottoms, I played top. When they insisted they were tops, I played bottom. Yes, I have my preferences, but if the person really felt right to me, and I liked them enough, I couldn't care less who was screwing who.
Sep 30, 2014 Gay Movie Fan commented on Savage Love.
Not my favorite Savage Love column, by a long shot.
Sep 16, 2014 Gay Movie Fan commented on Savage Love.
@ #1 -- my thoughts exactly.
Jul 22, 2014 Gay Movie Fan commented on Savage Love.
I have no problem with twinks (who I am not into anyway) keeping their sexuality among their peers, but what freaks me out are the countless gay men over 40 or even over 50, who spend all their time and energy trying to land a 22 year-old, and then go home alone. Meanwhile, there are tons of very hot guys over 40 who think their life is over because they can't land a twink, but they never give a thought to people their own age. I sometimes cruise on-line; I am a youthful 59 years old. I can't believe the number of guys over 40 -- or even my age -- who reject me with "sorry, but I'm only into younger guys. It's just a preference". I liked Dan's advice years ago to a guy over 50 who couldn't understand why he couldn't attract "hairy, muscular, swarthy guys under thirty". Dan said, and I remember the quote verbatim, "If YOU wouldn't date YOU, how can you expect anyone else to want you?" Sorry for the rant.
May 27, 2014 Gay Movie Fan commented on Being Gay in Iran.
What a sad and touching story. Thank god it has a happy ending. But there are many, many LGBT people living in Iran and countries like it who fear for their lives every day. I feel powerless and frustrated when I think about their plight. We need the US and other Western countries to do more to help these people.
May 14, 2014 Gay Movie Fan commented on I, Anonymous.
WOW! IA sat next to a famous musician. Bet they couldn't sleep that night from the excitement.
Dec 30, 2013 Gay Movie Fan commented on I, Anonymous.
I have a LOT of health problems and I need to sit down. I use a cane. I recently went home to visit (NYC) for 10 days and took the subway a LOT. Many, many people offered me a seat, and I never had to stand. Not even once.

I feel for IA.
Oct 23, 2013 Gay Movie Fan commented on I, Anonymous.
I had a "friend" years ago who used to insist I read his dreadful, unfunny plays. He was convinced he would one day become rich and famous off these truly awful gay "comedies". I am always honest and when he would ask for my input, I would tell him the truth - they all sucked. Finally, one day I showed him a draft of a story I was writing, hoping against hope that he might sense some of what he was lacking. He turned up a week later; "You're going to be upset with me..." he stammered. He had taken my story and rewrote it as a remarkably bad play. To make a long story short, I haven't had to read one of his plays since.
Oct 15, 2013 Gay Movie Fan commented on Savage Love.
CACAS's boyfriend almost definitely wants out of the relationship. The sex worker deserves an acknowledgement of his grief as much as anybody else. Great column.
Oct 6, 2013 Gay Movie Fan commented on I, Anonymous.
Should have told the guy that the kids were on enough COCAINE and MALT LIQUOR that they would never notice if they were hit by a car