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Mar 6 lulubelle commented on SL Letter of the Day: About a Boy.
@19--Oh, he will. He's in COLLEGE. He sounds like a freshman. He's in college and he's so nervous about taking his shirt off that he talks about it as if he were writing in an alien language ("I would love to pull my sweater over my head to expose myself to him"). Every time I read something written by a college kid, it's like reading a dispatch from another planet that I forgot existed. He'll be fine.
Feb 11 lulubelle commented on SL Letter of the Day: Unhappy Valentines Day.
If "the root" of their problems is that he doesn't speak up when he's unhappy and communicate his needs, it seems like this VD is the PERFECT occasion to PRACTICE DOING THE OPPOSITE--just speak up and tell her "this all seems really weird and I feel trapped by a sense that I don't know what to do." That's what the goal of counseling is anyway, right? And even if practicing this new way of interacting is not enough to save the marriage, surely it'll come in handy in the next relationship?
Feb 9 lulubelle commented on SL Letter of the Day: Seeking Stinky Feet.
@12--I'm with you, I hate it. I didn't realize I was supposed to like it. I mean, I know some people DO, but I didn't know that it was a standard feature on the "things people really like" list.
Jan 7 lulubelle commented on SL Letter of the Day: Too Long, Had To Read (Cuz It's My Job).
Even if he did the things she claims she wants (accept her nonmonogamous ways) this relationship wouldn't work. She doesn't want a calm and forthright relationship; she needs this cycle of betrayal and forgiveness. Unless he proves that he loves her by overlooking behavior that she knows he hates, she won't "feel special and appreciated."
Jan 4 lulubelle commented on "It's like a beautiful woman walking down the street.".
@14--To be clear, I'm not trying to argue that this is morally or ethically objectionable. I'd just assume I was about to be murdered. In the end, I'd be happily surprised!
Jan 3 lulubelle commented on "It's like a beautiful woman walking down the street.".
If I saw someone walking toward me dressed like that, I would just assume that I was about to be murdered. No?
Dec 5, 2013 lulubelle commented on SL Letter of the Day: LGBT&P?.
@8--As everyone knows, FU stands for Felix Ungar.
Dec 1, 2013 lulubelle commented on Rush Limbaugh No Longer Cutting the Pope Any Slack.
He's been tempted to delve further into Catholicism but never spent enough time looking into it to have heard about vows of poverty?
Sep 10, 2013 lulubelle commented on SLLOTD: Donkey See, Donkey Doo.
"Hot Karl" is Karl-with-a-K? I always thought it was "Hot Carl." This is a real game-changer.
Aug 27, 2013 lulubelle commented on High School Teacher Convicted of Raping 14 Year Old Who Later Killed Herself.
Also there's this, regarding his termination from his treatment program for violating some of the program's terms: "The violations were serious enough when taken together to kick Rambold out of the program, although it was learned that the minors Rambold was visiting were family members."

OH, WELL, if some of them were family members, that obviously deserves that little "although" exception. Because sexual predators NEEEVVVVER prey on family members. That's a thing that doesn't happen at all. Bring on the teenaged family members, because this guy is safe!
 
 

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