commented on Savage Love
I don't have anything to add to everyone's excellent advice re: bc methods, but I am still stuck on the portion of CLOD's letter where he notes that his friend "reached into her pants and felt for a pussy only after she started giving him head." I regrettably never have given head to a stranger in a club, but is that a normal part of the ritual in any event? "Here comes some free cocksucking!" "HANG ON, MUST DO A QUICK VAGINA-CHECK."
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Pop a Cap
@8 I suppose it's a refreshing change in the nature of the objectification, but I feel like it's worse in spirit--he's not just "checking out," it sounds like he's prowling.