commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: You Heard It Here First, Cousin
I don't think the woman needs help at all. She knows what she wants and she has set boundaries and stuck to them. The LETTER WRITER on the other hand, needs to deal with the fact that he wants an exclusive relationship WITH SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT WANT THAT AND WON'T WANT IT ANY TIME SOON. HE needs to get in with a therapist and find out why he insists on this. Cousin or no cousin, she is OPEN in her relationship. He needs to get a life.
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Too Drunk To Swing
Behind Hurt is anger. Who and what are you angry at? You SHOULD be angry at yourself for getting so wasted you couldn't follow through as your husband did. So, wait a bit and try again--and I agree with Dan: you must get your chance first this time.
commented on Savage Love Letters of the Day: Reader Advice Round-up
About the Strep carrier: this makes NO SENSE at all: once you get a bacterial infection and ride it out, YOU ARE IMMUNE. She should not be getting the SAME strep infection over and over again. Sorry, but I think we got Catfished!
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Wedding Party
People: you are MARRIED. This is just a PARTY to celebrate. I entertain so I see a lot of weddings and I see that the ceremony is getting shorter and shorter--lets just hurry through the I do's to get to the IMPORTANT part. People are getting so stupid about weddings, no wonder that 50% end in divorce. (and BTW: no matter how long you are together, being MARRIED changes things. So, all people, stop investing in big, stupid, overly extravagant parties and get on with your LIFE.)