Apr 11 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Safe Play During Moresomes with Strangers.
The biggest take-away here: don't mix sex and drinking. THAT is what really screwed things up besides that asshole. If they hadn't all been at least a bit drunk, they all would have dealt with this asshole easier. And BTW: I agree with @1.
Mar 24 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: She Needs Help! NOW!.
So she spent 5 years with this guy. if she stays now, she will have spent ______ years and STILL need to Dump this dick. DUMP HIM NOW!
Mar 17 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: You Heard It Here First, Cousin.
I don't think the woman needs help at all. She knows what she wants and she has set boundaries and stuck to them. The LETTER WRITER on the other hand, needs to deal with the fact that he wants an exclusive relationship WITH SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT WANT THAT AND WON'T WANT IT ANY TIME SOON. HE needs to get in with a therapist and find out why he insists on this. Cousin or no cousin, she is OPEN in her relationship. He needs to get a life.
Mar 15 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Too Drunk To Swing.
Behind Hurt is anger. Who and what are you angry at? You SHOULD be angry at yourself for getting so wasted you couldn't follow through as your husband did. So, wait a bit and try again--and I agree with Dan: you must get your chance first this time.
Mar 2 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Reader Advice Round-up.
A wink is as good as a nod, say no more! Say no more!
Feb 27 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Longest SLLOTD Ever Posted.
@9 and @17 you BOTH nailed it exactly! Sheesh, this woman needs to get a LIFE!
Feb 24 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Being A Couple & Sleeping in Separate Beds Is Cool, Too.
My parents had a "king size" bed with separate top mattresses so they could have separate bedding--that could be one option. ON the other hand, my lover and I could not sleep together in a queen size, we got a king and separate comforters and sleep happily ever after.
Feb 17 BG commented on Savage Love Letters of the Day: Reader Advice Round-up.
About the Strep carrier: this makes NO SENSE at all: once you get a bacterial infection and ride it out, YOU ARE IMMUNE. She should not be getting the SAME strep infection over and over again. Sorry, but I think we got Catfished!
Feb 3 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Wedding Party.
People: you are MARRIED. This is just a PARTY to celebrate. I entertain so I see a lot of weddings and I see that the ceremony is getting shorter and shorter--lets just hurry through the I do's to get to the IMPORTANT part. People are getting so stupid about weddings, no wonder that 50% end in divorce. (and BTW: no matter how long you are together, being MARRIED changes things. So, all people, stop investing in big, stupid, overly extravagant parties and get on with your LIFE.)
Jan 25 BG commented on Dutch to Trump: America First, The Netherlands Second!.
OMG! This is the funniest thing to come out of the election yet! Watch it when you are depressed from too much assholery on TV.