Feb 17 BG commented on Savage Love Letters of the Day: Reader Advice Round-up.
About the Strep carrier: this makes NO SENSE at all: once you get a bacterial infection and ride it out, YOU ARE IMMUNE. She should not be getting the SAME strep infection over and over again. Sorry, but I think we got Catfished!
Feb 3 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Wedding Party.
People: you are MARRIED. This is just a PARTY to celebrate. I entertain so I see a lot of weddings and I see that the ceremony is getting shorter and shorter--lets just hurry through the I do's to get to the IMPORTANT part. People are getting so stupid about weddings, no wonder that 50% end in divorce. (and BTW: no matter how long you are together, being MARRIED changes things. So, all people, stop investing in big, stupid, overly extravagant parties and get on with your LIFE.)
Jan 25 BG commented on Dutch to Trump: America First, The Netherlands Second!.
OMG! This is the funniest thing to come out of the election yet! Watch it when you are depressed from too much assholery on TV.

Jan 21 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Reader Advice Round-Up.
I saw a funny internet meme showing a cat with a pizza slice around its head. The Caption: "I know what Trump grabs, I am a pizza." I now refer to my cats as Pizzas, better to avoid any issues with Moron in Chief.
Jan 6 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Snooper Boyfriend Keeps Snooping Through Passed Out Girlfriend's Phone.
I think it is already over. She rejects all his offers for sex, refuses to initiate Sex, then wants to find a new partner? DTMFA already.
Mar 21, 2016 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Mated and Checkmated.
WHY is abortion or keep it the ONLY options here? Why not adoption? I am NOT saying she should not abort, I am absolutely pro-choice, but if she is against abortion, Adoption IS an option too. And she still won't have this asshole--and his entourage--in her life for 18 years!
Feb 23, 2016 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Dog's Life.
Dan, you need to ask for an authority to speak to this.
Oct 16, 2015 BG commented on SL Letter of the Day: Lose the Moral Panic.
She could carry the baby to term AND THEN PUT IT UP FOR ADOPTION. Why don't people think about that possibility? Especially if it is discussed ahead of time by two adults as part of the plan for the future. Or even better: he could have a vasectomy and then he doesn't have to worry anymore, does he?

BTW Max Solomon: birth control (especially IUD and the pill) can fail. A friend was on the pill and took antibiotics and sure enough she got pregnant. Even Tubal Ligations have a 10% chance of failure. (I assume vasectomies similar.)
Oct 6, 2015 BG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: She Can't Unread That.
"your own carelessness—leaving something so toxic in a place where she might find it and read it—was unforgivably thoughtless." Careless, yes, thoughtless? No. Everyone had the right to their own thoughts. There were other things in there also that she must have realized--well before she got to the part about herself that were very private, but she still read it. Dan, you dropped the ball on that part. '

I do "Morning Pages" where I get up and journal in the morning. My Partner knows about it, the notebook is right out where she could get it. She worries about our relationship (even thought we have been together for years already) and she could look in there to see if I am talking about her or about OTHER girls that she fears I will try it on with. But she doesn't do it. Know why? She is mature enough to allow me some privacy. She doesn't snoop.

This girl snooped and now she got what she deserves. Painful but it is a lesson for her: trust don't snoop.
Sep 28, 2015 BG commented on Curtain Falls on Carly Fiorina.
@4--that is wonderful!

But I AM confused. Where is the Video that Dan mentions of her beating a stage hand? I realize it must have been sarcasm and maybe I am dense, but I missed it. And I didn't find that comment the least funny. The rest is wonderful. I do wish some of that pipe and drape had hit her, that would have been NEWS.