commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Family From Hell
You know what my wife and I did about the relative who always treated her like shit and tried to poison our relationship? Not only did we not invite her to the wedding, but we didn't even tell her it was happening. That relative is the woman who gave birth to her, by the way (she refuses to call her "mother").
Your wedding, your rules.
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Then at @22, I don't think you're an asshole; it's a honest question.
From my own experience, my wife and I have been together for 16 passionate years and we consider ourselves soul mates. But yes, we still openly want to date and hump other people. But I will confess that the bond we've formed has set a thus-far-impossibly-high standard for any potential lovers. I think this is the origin of the unicorn concept.