Feb 14, 2012
blackbird commented on
Savage Love.
the anal sex used to be a challenge but then I discovered through time three prerequisites. you have to be empty and clean so you can push out during and not worry about taking a crap or stinking up the room. so buy a small enema bottle and douche away. second, the anal ring will slowly dilate when penetrated so first one finger, then two, then three (or whatever you use to dilate slowly) go slow, this is where the first 'lots of lube part' comes in. lastly, if anything gets pushed in too soon, and you get the stab of pain, pull it out, the pain will subside, but you'll still remain dilated from the invasion and it will be much less uncomfortable when it goes back in. by the time you are fully opened, and he's slamming away while rubbing up against your prostrate, all the hassle will be worth it. then its his turn.....
Jun 23, 2010
blackbird commented on
Savage Love.
so does this mean the christian fundamentalists are correct....a gay man can learn to love pussy and so become straight?
or perhaps a kinsey 6 can become a kinsey 5?