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Oct 18 bodhirungus commented on Savage Love.
@8 No.

I've been having the Trump talk with my daughters since they were old enough to understand English. That's the world we live in. Smash the patriarchy!
Oct 17 bodhirungus commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Her Girlfriend Won't Fuck Her.
So much yes! Listen to Dan! Listen to the first commenter! Be even awesomer! Dtmfa. Who knows- maybe you've not yet met the person you're in Europe to find.
Feb 26 bodhirungus commented on A Dissenting View on Hillary Clinton and Marriage Equality.
I love you too, Bertin.
Also, I consider Dan's support of Hillary to be mostly due to Terry, who loves Hillary, and has all but forced Dan to do the same. It's like a price of admission thing.
Feb 2 bodhirungus commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Crying Game.
Dan! How the hell did you do a complete DTMFA post without ever actually saying DTMFA? You are becoming like the yoda of sex advice columnists.
Jan 29 bodhirungus commented on Freaking Out About the Zika Virus Yet?.
Thinking about the implications is what is chilling. What will happen if a large percentage of all human babies are born with this horrible deformity? What if humans have to have fewer and fewer babies? The social and economic implications of a possibly severely negative population growth? Generations lost or born deformed?? This is why I'm concerned by this virus.
Nov 24, 2015 bodhirungus commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Sister Act.
Anytime someone tries to pin the blame for a past relationship solely on the ex being crazy alcoholic etc, I see a huge red flag. Take responsibility for your past, or you are doomed to repeat it. Having a kid is not an excuse to stay in a toxic relationship, if anything it makes it more imperative to end a bad situation to try and make a better life for the kid. So my first thought is that it sounds like the bf may have been as much of a problem in his past relationship as his ex. I'm surprised Dan took the blaming of the ex at face value. I mean the dude cheated on his baby mama with her sister and he calls her the fucked up one??
Sep 23, 2015 bodhirungus commented on SL Letter of the Day: Help!.
You said 'if they reduce actual child molestations.' How can you prove that? The opposite being true seems just as likely: that 'it can help create a feeling of normalcy, and a sense of community that is built around indulging the urge rather than fighting it.' It's too wrong on too many levels.
Dec 22, 2014 bodhirungus commented on SL Letter of the Day: Happy Polidays.
Yes @10. Thinking you have a long term arrangement with a college student, early twenties who still lives at home seems naive. And perhaps I am exposing my own naïveté but I don't think this young man's participation in a poly relationship is comparable to Dan's example. He may be enjoying an older woman or something that is different exciting and new, but that doesn't mean he will be in poly relationships from here on out. I think his mother's concerns are well founded. I am glad the letter writer gets that.
Jul 29, 2014 bodhirungus commented on Savage Love.
I love Dan and all, but what if LW1 was to disclose after the first fuck, but before any more fucking? I guess it would be best to approach it on a case by case basis, but couldn't it be assumed the first fuck is just a one night stand?