May 18
migrationist commented on Savage Love.
@mydriasis and tachycardia:
Personally, I am a big fan of penetrative sex.
That does not mean that any other kind of sex is not sex.
I find the term "foreplay" a bit silly, for reasons I tried to explain, but which nocutename explained much better.
Personally, I am a big fan of penetrative sex.
That does not mean that any other kind of sex is not sex.
I find the term "foreplay" a bit silly, for reasons I tried to explain, but which nocutename explained much better.
May 17
migrationist commented on Savage Love.
@mydriasis and Buffy:
I quite liked it when my ex said he doesn't like the term "foreplay" at all. It's sex. Calling it "foreplay" makes it sound less valid.
What is it anyway? Any kind of non-PiV sex before PiV? Oral and manual sex? Is it still foreplay if one partner decides against PiV sex at the last minute?
It makes it sound like anything but PiV is not serious sex. (Which may well be how someone feels. But someone else might feel that anything without oral is not serious sex.)
I quite liked it when my ex said he doesn't like the term "foreplay" at all. It's sex. Calling it "foreplay" makes it sound less valid.
What is it anyway? Any kind of non-PiV sex before PiV? Oral and manual sex? Is it still foreplay if one partner decides against PiV sex at the last minute?
It makes it sound like anything but PiV is not serious sex. (Which may well be how someone feels. But someone else might feel that anything without oral is not serious sex.)
May 17
migrationist commented on SL Letter of the Day: Living Discomfortably.
@37:
I have male platonic friends who are 20 years older than I am. Why can't that be possible?
I have male platonic friends who are 20 years older than I am. Why can't that be possible?
May 13
migrationist commented on I'm Fine, You Guys, I'm Fine.
@16:
No, puppies are annoying.
An old grumpy butt-ugly mutt from the pound, best with some annoying character traits, will always melt my heart.
No, puppies are annoying.
An old grumpy butt-ugly mutt from the pound, best with some annoying character traits, will always melt my heart.
May 11
migrationist commented on SL Letter of the Day: I'm Out.
@120:
Thank you!
"Cunt" is my favourite English word for female genitals, far superior to pussy which is a major turn-off (slit and gash are the worst).
But as an insult it is not ironic nor funny. It's just offensive.
Thank you!
"Cunt" is my favourite English word for female genitals, far superior to pussy which is a major turn-off (slit and gash are the worst).
But as an insult it is not ironic nor funny. It's just offensive.
May 9
migrationist commented on SL Letter of the Day: Bonus Advice for Too Soon To Quit.
@22:
I don't mind him not having a job too much. We don't know exactly what his qualifications are and how much his broken foot disables him. Depending on where they live, it might be quite difficult to find a new job at the moment.
Also, I am not very prejudiced against husbands staying home, having had a stay-at-home father, and having male friends who stayed home or only worked part-time.
The problem is that he is not pulling his weight in their relationship. He is not using his time to do something useful. He isn't even doing his half (not to speak of the whole) of the housework.
I don't mind him not having a job too much. We don't know exactly what his qualifications are and how much his broken foot disables him. Depending on where they live, it might be quite difficult to find a new job at the moment.
Also, I am not very prejudiced against husbands staying home, having had a stay-at-home father, and having male friends who stayed home or only worked part-time.
The problem is that he is not pulling his weight in their relationship. He is not using his time to do something useful. He isn't even doing his half (not to speak of the whole) of the housework.
May 8
migrationist commented on It's Clitoris Awareness Week—Were You Aware of That?.
How their whole website looks creeps me out..
And calling a FGM-restoration hospital in Africa "Pleasure Hospital" does not seem to be the best way to go forward. The backlash of that name could mean that traditional parents who think that FGM is maybe not good, get scared witless that their little girl will be a slut in pursuit of pleasure if not genitally mutilated.
And calling a FGM-restoration hospital in Africa "Pleasure Hospital" does not seem to be the best way to go forward. The backlash of that name could mean that traditional parents who think that FGM is maybe not good, get scared witless that their little girl will be a slut in pursuit of pleasure if not genitally mutilated.
May 8
migrationist commented on Savage Love.
Just one or two comments for LW2 and no comments for LW3?
I guess in both cases, there's nothing to add to Dan's advice.
I guess in both cases, there's nothing to add to Dan's advice.
May 7
migrationist commented on SL Letter of the Day: What Kind of Straight Guys Watch Gay Porn?.
@ABW:
I have to agree with seandr, but just the opposite: the American female hetero college students I got to know are absolutely horrified by the thought of being seen naked by other women.
While I was in an American college, I shared a room with another student for the whole year. She managed to change her clothes so discreetly that I never saw her naked. On the other hand, she had no qualms about telling me how much she loved her boyfriend's cock and how she sucked him off while he was driving. The other American students wouldn't shower at the swimming pool because there were shared showers (no glass dividers), just us Europeans did.
I have to agree with seandr, but just the opposite: the American female hetero college students I got to know are absolutely horrified by the thought of being seen naked by other women.
While I was in an American college, I shared a room with another student for the whole year. She managed to change her clothes so discreetly that I never saw her naked. On the other hand, she had no qualms about telling me how much she loved her boyfriend's cock and how she sucked him off while he was driving. The other American students wouldn't shower at the swimming pool because there were shared showers (no glass dividers), just us Europeans did.
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