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Sep 10 Corylea commented on SL Letter of the Day: Don't Just Sleep There, Do Something!.
When I was 34, I met a guy who was highly intelligent, socially mature, and extremely interesting. I had no idea that he was only 22 until we'd already gotten involved. I was a little freaked out to be dating someone so much younger than I was, but he wasn't at all typical for 22, and I was a pretty naive and unworldly 34, so we were actually about the same age. :-) We were good for each other for a number of years, and although we've parted ways now, I'll always think of him fondly.

People belong to categories, but they're individuals FIRST. If you click so well with this guy, don't worry about his age. (Do be kind, though.)
Sep 8 Corylea commented on SL Letter of the Day: You Can't Please Everybody.
There are all kinds of feminists. Some of us WRITE porn! Speak only for yourself, okay?
Sep 4 Corylea commented on Same-Sex-Marriage Bans in Wisconsin and Indiana Declared Unconstitutional.
Wow. That's wonderful news, gorgeously written.
Sep 4 Corylea commented on SL Letter of the Day: BDSMC.
Selfishness in bed and dominance are not -- repeat NOT -- the same thing. It may feel like it gratifies your kink for your boyfriend to order you to go down on him, but if he doesn't care about your satisfaction at all, he's going to be a pretty unsatisfying dom -- as well as a fairly shitty partner -- over the long haul.
Aug 28 Corylea commented on Man Tased, Arrested for Crime of Being Black in St. Paul, Minnesota.
This is shameful. The thugs with badges need to go to jail, and the innocent man needs to sue the city.
Aug 28 Corylea commented on SL Letter of the Day: Innocent Virgins.
This smells fake to me, too.
Aug 5 Corylea commented on SL Letter of the Day: This Cheater Will Never Stop Cheating.
Sexual desire is not the same as love. Emotional dependence is not the same as love. Having the empty spaces in your own soul temporarily filled up by another person's attention is not the same as love.

Please, lady, go to therapy until you have the strength to love yourself, at which point you'll become capable of loving someone else.
Aug 4 Corylea commented on There Has to Be a Better Way to Say "Really, Really Gay".
Carol Channing is still alive? Wow. (Sorry, Dan, I'm afraid I find that the most surprising thing here. :-D)
Jul 30 Corylea commented on Savage Love.
I'm a polyamorous woman, and in my community, you tell someone you're poly as soon as you're interested in dating them. Going out on a couple of dates and THEN telling them would gain you the reputation -- as BiDanFan says -- of being a deceptive slimeball.

Here in Boston, we have a social group for polyamorous people that has meetings, dinners, discussions, and so on. Check to see if there's a group near you, and if not, start one!
Jul 23 Corylea commented on Savage Love.
Dan, there's a big difference between flirting in a bar or a locker room and flirting on Craigslist or Adam4Adam. People go to bars to drink or to gyms to work out, but the only purpose for the online groups SOCI mentioned is to flirt with (or hook up with) other people. It's a matter of intent!

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