commented on Savage Love
Regarding the women with sore fingers, etc: I am surprised Dan did not recommend a fleshlight or similar masturbation toy. The women and use those on the guy without much stress on their hands.
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Germaphobe Couldn't Be Into Piss, Right?
1) OCD, like any other mental illness, is NOT RATIONAL. You can be disgusted by the thought of germs on your food, but go out and play in the mud. There are germs either way, but that DOES NOT MATTER to a condition that is, by definition, irrational. Don't try to impose reason on mental illness. It's like telling a depressed person that they have so much to be happy about. OK, but they are still depressed.
2) The documents do not claim that Trump had anyone piss ON HIM. They say he paid sex workers to piss on each other on the bed. Hence, no "germs" on him.
Dec 28, 2016
commented on Savage Love
How do you decide who wins an argument in a same-sex relationship?
A sudden-death round of Golden Girls trivia.
Doesn't this assume it is a MALE same-sex relationship? (I would recommend a more gender neutral game of Rock-Paper-Scissors.)
Nov 26, 2016
commented on How Green Is My Recount?
I really wish the Democrats would have run someone who wouldn't have done such a good job of getting out the extreme right wing base of the Republican party.
Nov 23, 2016
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Dear Old—Really Old—Mom and Dad
"I know my parents to be fiscally conservative but over the years, with all of the Fox News watching, they bought into Hillary Hate. I don't think they like Trump they just hated Hilary."
And that, folks, is why Trump won. Hillary was the perfect candidate to mobilize the Republican base.
Nov 17, 2016
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Boyfriend on the Menu
"my understanding of it is that vores really long for intimacy and protection."
Other potential motivations for the fantasy:
He may want to be the object of your intense desire. (Maybe you would never eat other men, but you've just got to have HIM. You know it's wrong, but he is going to be so delicious! You just CAN'T HELP YOURSELF! You're really GOING TO MISS HIM, but it would be SUCH A SHAME to not eat such a delicious piece of meat. You hope he understands and wants YOU to be happy. He'd let you do this if he truly loved you.)
He may want to be used for your pleasure and your pleasure only. (The cook and the diner do not care that the livestock would not want to be on the menu. The pig/cow/chicken is there for the diner to enjoy the meal. And many cooks really enjoy the opportunity to prepare something special with unusual or high-quality ingredients. You get to be BOTH THE COOK AND THE DINER. In role play, he may want to enjoy the experience of you enjoying him so much.)