Feb 16 LML commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Why Is My Gay Son Hooking Up With a Girl?.
Come on Dan, we're dying of suspense. Should you kiss on the first date?
Jan 25 LML commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: She's Wonderful! She's Perfect! (But I'd Like Bigger Boobs...).
The cart before the pony-player, of course.
Jan 12 LML commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Germaphobe Couldn't Be Into Piss, Right?.
1) OCD, like any other mental illness, is NOT RATIONAL. You can be disgusted by the thought of germs on your food, but go out and play in the mud. There are germs either way, but that DOES NOT MATTER to a condition that is, by definition, irrational. Don't try to impose reason on mental illness. It's like telling a depressed person that they have so much to be happy about. OK, but they are still depressed.

2) The documents do not claim that Trump had anyone piss ON HIM. They say he paid sex workers to piss on each other on the bed. Hence, no "germs" on him.
Dec 28, 2016 LML commented on Savage Love.
How do you decide who wins an argument in a same-sex relationship?

A sudden-death round of Golden Girls trivia.

Doesn't this assume it is a MALE same-sex relationship? (I would recommend a more gender neutral game of Rock-Paper-Scissors.)
Dec 21, 2016 LML commented on They Ain't Gonna Play Trump City.
You forget to add, NO MUSICIAN should perform at a TRUMP HOTEL OR CASINO! Hit him where he really cares--$$$.
Nov 26, 2016 LML commented on How Green Is My Recount?.
I really wish the Democrats would have run someone who wouldn't have done such a good job of getting out the extreme right wing base of the Republican party.
Nov 23, 2016 LML commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Dear Old—Really Old—Mom and Dad.
"I know my parents to be fiscally conservative but over the years, with all of the Fox News watching, they bought into Hillary Hate. I don't think they like Trump they just hated Hilary."

And that, folks, is why Trump won. Hillary was the perfect candidate to mobilize the Republican base.
Nov 17, 2016 LML commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Boyfriend on the Menu.
"my understanding of it is that vores really long for intimacy and protection."

Other potential motivations for the fantasy:

He may want to be the object of your intense desire. (Maybe you would never eat other men, but you've just got to have HIM. You know it's wrong, but he is going to be so delicious! You just CAN'T HELP YOURSELF! You're really GOING TO MISS HIM, but it would be SUCH A SHAME to not eat such a delicious piece of meat. You hope he understands and wants YOU to be happy. He'd let you do this if he truly loved you.)

He may want to be used for your pleasure and your pleasure only. (The cook and the diner do not care that the livestock would not want to be on the menu. The pig/cow/chicken is there for the diner to enjoy the meal. And many cooks really enjoy the opportunity to prepare something special with unusual or high-quality ingredients. You get to be BOTH THE COOK AND THE DINER. In role play, he may want to enjoy the experience of you enjoying him so much.)
Nov 17, 2016 LML commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Boyfriend on the Menu.
Perhaps role play that you are preparing him for dinner? "Tenderize" his ass (spanking), clean him, oil him up, make him get on the table, and put an apple in his mouth? You can include commentary evaluating him as a piece of meat (nice rump!) and telling him how much you are looking forward to the meal. Leave him like that while you enjoy a nice glass of wine.

BTW, Thanksgiving is coming up. He might like to be your turkey.
Nov 14, 2016 LML commented on This Moment: Richard Rorty Called It.
It is not simply that Clinton was a horrible choice for mobilizing Democrats, given her pro-corporate record, her contempt of the left, her support for "ending welfare as we know it," profiting from private prisons, atrocious human rights abuses abroad as Secretary of State, corruption at the Clinton Foundation--including robbing money from Haitians who literally died because the aid was diverted to Friends of Bill, etc. Clinton was also a GREAT CHOICE FOR MOBILIZING the Republican base. The Republicans could have run Satan himself and the base would have still turned out to vote against Clinton because they would have seen Satan as the lesser evil. Everyone, including Clinton and the DNC, knew that the Republican base hated her that much.

And turnout was not down simply among "Bernie Bros." Turnout was down across the board. Turnout was not down because Bernie did not repeatedly urge his voters to support Clinton. It was down because the majority of voters--including millions who did not vote in the primaries--did not like either candidate. It was just down less among Republicans because they had a greater dislike of Clinton.