commented on SL Letter of the Day: Bonus Advice for Too Soon To Quit
Um. I do not give one fuck about this guy's feelings. You don't get to treat other people like shit just because you're depressed. She needs to walk out and maybe that will spur him into some sort of action. And if it doesn't? Good riddance.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: My Best Guess
If you're married 7 years and have great kids, that means you have LITTLE kids. Maybe she's just exhausted. Little kids are hard on any sex life, open or swinging or monogamous or whatever. She needs to give herself break, and y'all need to grit your teeth and push through the little-kid years; it gets better!!
Jan 7, 2012
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Monogamish Week, Day 3
I don't know if you're still reading, ABIAT, but I'd also tell you to give yourself a break because you have small children. In my anecdotal experience, most women's libidos go down significantly while their children are small. You're what, 36? Kids are 6 and 3? Yeah, just wait a couple of years; it might get nearly back up to where it was in your 20s. :)
Also, I second the fish oil.
Nov 14, 2011
commented on Beating the Hell Out of Black Children
Yeah... if you don't get the difference between spanking and hitting, then by all means, don't spank. But time-outs do NOT always work. And you certainly can't explain shit to a 3-year-old.