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Jan 5 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Trump Supporters Want Invite To Their Gay Wedding.
I was legally married in Multnomah County, Oregon, in 2004. Then a ballot measure passed that fall, and my marriage was invalidated. We got our license fee back, and contributed the money to Basic Rights Oregon.
Dec 23, 2016 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: New To America & Ready To Get Laid.
I have had great luck with variations on, "How would it go for me if I asked to kiss you?" in my best charming and flirtatious manner.
Dec 20, 2016 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Open & Free (But What About Money?).
@5: No idea whether the letter is fake, but--someone working in the tech industry could easily have socked away some cash, and then gotten a buyout of stock options when let go.
Dec 17, 2016 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Big Big Love.
Eva Hopkins: Yes, I had Fleetwood Mac attack, too.
Dec 16, 2016 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Big Big Love.
Ease into it. Try sitting on his lap for a few minutes. Ask him to let you know if your weight is settled uncomfortably for him, or his foot starts to go to sleep, or something. Ask him to be super honest about it, so that you know that when he's *not* saying anything, it really is all good. Once you get comfortable with that, sit in his lap longer. Try more intense experiences in which he takes your weight.

He's a big dude. He's into you. Try to relax; it will all be okay.
Nov 18, 2016 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Help! I'm Being Sext-Shamed By My Asexual Ex!.
Sounds like she's not totally clear that you and she are broken up. If not, make that clear to her.

And see if that old flame is willing/able to go for a round or two. She sounds fun.
Nov 15, 2016 clashfan commented on Savage Love.
I got married in Multnomah County in spring, 2004. One election later, my marriage was annulled.
Nov 7, 2016 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letters of the Day: What's In a Name?.
@6: I see what you did there. Don't sleep on Morpheus.
Nov 7, 2016 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letters of the Day: What's In a Name?.
I wouldn't go with Morpheus, because of the unfortunate Matrix connections.

Benvolio sounds like an awesome name, though. If he ever didn't like it, he could just introduce himself as Ben.
Oct 26, 2016 clashfan commented on Savage Love.
LW2: Just slip out the back, Jack.