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9:26 AM yesterday clashfan commented on Savage Love.
@22: Hard luck for the poor girl whose breast you smother on!
Jul 26 clashfan commented on A Conversation With a #BernieOrBuster About Dinner.
I'm with @10. I voted for Sanders in the CA primary. I'm glad he ran, and I'm happy he moved the party--and Clinton herself--to the left. I'm grateful that he got economic disparity front and center in the Democratic Party discussion.
Let the BoBs have some time to handle their disappointment. Kicking them when they're down isn't doing anyone any good. Let them adjust, and most of them will come around. Keep poking at them, and they'll still be angry in November. And that benefits only Trump.
Jul 21 clashfan commented on Savage Love.
What would you tell a woman who wrote in that her brother in law kept saying "Sure do miss being single, and banging all the single ladies!" every time her sister left the room?
Jul 9 clashfan commented on Dumbest Letter Ever.
@50: No, you don't have to bake cakes for the KKK. Membership in the KKK is not a protected status by law.
Jul 7 clashfan commented on Baker Refuses to Make a Cake for a Same-Sex Couple.
@31: Due to mention of Girl Guides (and not Girl Scouts) I think 29 is not from the US. They also may be taking the piss.
Jul 6 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Bonus Advice From Esther Perel for "Heartbroken And Devastated".
@9: They had phone sex and online flirting up until LW discovered the whole thing two weeks ago. He's not really an ex.
Jun 12 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Dramatists Club.
I think only one person was suggesting it long-term, meaning until the younger kid leaves high school. I think most of us are thinking on the order of a few months.
Jun 12 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Dramatists Club.
@130: So wank off. That's what people are telling her to do, in the short term. Until she gets herself on more stable emotional ground, without these terrible people around her.

Apparently she's working double shifts for the next two months, assumedly at the old job and the new one. Maybe once that's done, she can focus on self-care, making sure her kids' needs are being met, and getting some treatment for her depression. Try dating when she has a decent floor beneath her. In the meantime, wank away. It's not the same as partnered sex, but it's better than nothing and it takes the edge off.