Dec 16, 2016
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Big Big Love
Ease into it. Try sitting on his lap for a few minutes. Ask him to let you know if your weight is settled uncomfortably for him, or his foot starts to go to sleep, or something. Ask him to be super honest about it, so that you know that when he's *not* saying anything, it really is all good. Once you get comfortable with that, sit in his lap longer. Try more intense experiences in which he takes your weight.
He's a big dude. He's into you. Try to relax; it will all be okay.
Nov 15, 2016
commented on Savage Love
I got married in Multnomah County in spring, 2004. One election later, my marriage was annulled.