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Nov 18 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Help! I'm Being Sext-Shamed By My Asexual Ex!.
Sounds like she's not totally clear that you and she are broken up. If not, make that clear to her.

And see if that old flame is willing/able to go for a round or two. She sounds fun.
Nov 15 clashfan commented on Savage Love.
I got married in Multnomah County in spring, 2004. One election later, my marriage was annulled.
Nov 7 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letters of the Day: What's In a Name?.
@6: I see what you did there. Don't sleep on Morpheus.
Nov 7 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letters of the Day: What's In a Name?.
I wouldn't go with Morpheus, because of the unfortunate Matrix connections.

Benvolio sounds like an awesome name, though. If he ever didn't like it, he could just introduce himself as Ben.
Oct 26 clashfan commented on Savage Love.
LW2: Just slip out the back, Jack.
Oct 19 clashfan commented on Savage Love.
Oodletrend, how would you react if your daughter came home and told you what the LW's kid said to her? What would you say to her?
Oct 13 clashfan commented on Rush Limbaugh Takes a Stand Against Consensual Sex.
I think it was bad form for the president, likely the most powerful man in the world at that time, to have sex with a twenty-something intern. It was terrible judgment, and she is still paying the price for it.
But it was by no means rape.
Oct 7 clashfan commented on SL Letter of the Day: Thanks For the "Cure," Mom..
@4: No, I don't think she had genuine concern about him becoming a criminal sex offender. Mom used the phrases, "nipped those dark sexual impulses in the bud,"and, "a morally acceptable lifestyle,". She didn't talk with him calmly and share her concerns. She didn't try to get him into therapy. She spied on him and shamed him and is still trying to shame him.

If Mom doesn't let this go, follow the second half of Dan's advice.
Sep 30 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Tweet Storm of Excellent Advice.
Does someone need a lesson on "Nice Guy" vs genuinely kind man?

It is also true that a lot of the media from the 80s applauded the male friend who held out for the object of his affection, who eventually came around to seeing that he was the one for her all along. And vice versa.
Sep 28 clashfan commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Like a Good Neighbor.
There are agencies that will do respite care. The family should get themselves officially registered as foster parents, and then that might become an option for them.