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May 15 drjones commented on Savage Love.

Anti porn mom is as dumb as the crazy christians who try to beat the love of porn out of their sons. All it does is make the normal thing their normal kid wants (looking at pussies) into a naughty thing all twisted up with kinky embarrassment and self loathing. Giving your son an old-school feminist scolding about their desires is no better than telling them rubbing their dicks makes baby Jesus cry.

She wants to let him see Playboy; full of airbrushed, bleached, silicone bimbos instead of the internet where it is at least possible to see real people having real sex? Dan has given much better advice on this subject in the past: speak to your son about how porno sex can be different than real person sex and that not many real women will be interested in lots that you see on the internet. That porn is private and should not be viewed in public. Then give him back his damn phone and pretend not to hear him beating off in his room like a good mom.

Apr 24 drjones commented on Savage Love.

Nothing like having something important to do to make you suddenly realize you have a bunch of other less important stuff that must be done first.

Jan 2 drjones commented on Savage Love.

I was at that show. It was great. Carry on.

Dec 5, 2012 drjones commented on Savage Love.

Apparently Pholyamorous is long for Pedant.

Nov 28, 2012 drjones commented on Savage Love.

You guys are all assuming that 'naturally nonmonogamous' means that everyone wants to screw as many people as possible at all times. I believe when Dan uses the phrase he means that our minds and libidos are not irreparably attached to one partner for all time. You don't have to be having sex with more than one person to be non monogomous by nature, you just have to look at a passerby and think they look hot.

But more importantly, all this slicing and dicing of words is pointless pedantry. It's an advice column in a weird newspaper not a contract with the devil.

Apr 12, 2012 drjones commented on Savage Love.

People here seem to be very good at projecting the details of their own failed relationships onto the letter writers, relationships wherein they were always the put upon party. Real life people make mistakes and first person accounts are not always accurate. Dan gets payed to make snap judgements about these things in an amusing manner, which he does well. Most of the rest of ya just sound like know it all jerks.

Apr 4, 2012 drjones commented on Savage Love.

My wife likes to go for a second O after I have gotten off sometimes with a big magic wand, inevitably the cat decides we are done since the thrashing about has stopped and I have to play defense to keep him from hopping on her and pawing at her boobs while she is trying to get off. Cats just do not give a shit.

Feb 29, 2012 drjones commented on SL Letter of the Day: Not Wanting Kids—Your Own, Someone Else's—Doesn't Make Someone an Asshole.

@41 You gotta be kidding, the childless in the US massively subsidize families with children. If a meager portion of my retirement is provided by your kids they can consider it thanks for paying for a portion of their education, safety and feeding for twenty years.

Apr 6, 2011 drjones commented on Savage Love.

A girlfriend who likes to take naked pictures of herself? What a terrible fetish! next she'll be telling me she enjoys giving blowjobs and cooking me steaks! Oh the humanity!