commented on SL Letter of the Day: Like, Say, DTMFA
I cannot for the life of me understand poly. Relationships are hard! I am in an excellent relationship and have been way for 12+ years. It's been great. Overall. But it is still hard. Hard work sometimes. Then stir in another person and another and another. Someone is always going to be hurt.
As for the writer, DTMFA.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Take a Pass On This Pastor
@5 me too.
Why doesn't the pastor just ask closet boy why he is asking these questions? It's not his job to fix this guy in any case and they have clearly not been in touch for years. I can't imagine what I would say to long lost acquaintances if they asked me such impertinent questions. "Bugger off" probably. Particularly some of the arseholes that were at my school.
commented on Jake Shears & Jane Fonda
Weird. And the clothes are horrible. I thank my wealthy father for passing on his disdain of expensive clothing. His clothes were really basic. Mine are borderline homeless chic. I simply do not get why people want to wear labels.
commented on Savage Love
Bizarre, what is it with people and sex workers? Send a card saying, "Dear X, I am so sorry about your loss". WTF is pejorative about that?
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Cum Now, Daniel...
IMO cum and come have a slightly different pronunciation. Cum is with a wider mouth (groan, no pun intended) and come with a slightly more rounded mouth (it gets worse).
Depends on the context. Cum is giggly and/or derogatory.
Depends on where you are from and your circles I suppose.