4:11 PM yesterday
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Seconded
Meh, his wife is a (minor) nut. If he is just having some virtual slap and tickle, who cares? I have to say that we gays have lots of issues, but watching porn, fantasies etc just don't seem to be an issue. Men understand men so much better. Those that are straight need to understand the opposite sex, not convert them to their own.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Living Discomfortably
It's a difficult situation and I think older guy is being a twat.
My advice would be to move when you can, but until then either speak up or if you're afraid, do the following. Every time he starts a conversation, hints, moves over or whatever, just get up and go to your room. Spend some time there and return. He starts up, you leave. Either he gets the message or you eventually speak up.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Mind Control
I too do not see the problem. Find a guy that is into being controlled. Get consent. Then "hypnotise" the "straight guy" and force him to have sex with you.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Mr. Wonderful
I find it curious that somebody would write to an advice columnist and think that dumping their POS significant other shouldn't be an option. I think she knows secretly that that is exactly what she needs to do, but was hoping for an alternative.
If you are reading this, listen to Dan. You can also listen to this old fag as well when I tell you that the only thing worse than wasting one year with this person, is wasting one year and one day with them. RUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Goodie Bag
@13, well said.
Of of the good things about porn is that is fantasy. No smells, tastes, the reality of dealing with actual people or creating actual situations that are difficult. One click of the mouse and you're back to reality. I understand that somebody would watch something that in real life they wouldn't actually do. I find public sex in broad daylight with a very strong possibility of being caught interesting. I would NEVER do it under these circumstances. In my real life I have had sex in public, but it very dark with a very unlikely chance of being discovered (except by like minded people).
commented on SL Letters of the Day: A Selection of Second Opinions
There are always two sides to a story. However. Just as a woman may be married to an APOS (abusing piece of shit), men can be married to a HPOS (hen-pecking piece of shit). I note that the latter has become very prevalent in the last decade or so.
I would absolutely advocate that the former a) ring the police, b) DTMFA.
Almost equally I would advocate that the latter DTMFA. Better to be single that have your balls ripped out through your wallet.