commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Object Lessons, Cont.
I'm a non op transwoman who's into couples
PENIS we already have words to describe what your looking for, I personally like trans amorous, be sure to mention he's looking for a woman who wants or is willing to top (they are out there but it's not a default). Other than that READ profiles! Most trans women put it in the first paragraph to try to avoid those cis only people. I can't tell you how often I get messages on my dating profile from men and when I ask about their interest in trans(me) it usually ends up in 'whoops sorry not my thing'. If this is you know that I screen shot our convo and post it to the running meme on my blog titled Menz who can't read...
Aug 21, 2014
commented on Everything Is Transphobic (But "Gay Men Draw Vaginas" Isn't)
@14 you win!
As a Trans woman I find all this hubbub absolutely ridiculous, I'm not being excluded because you don't expressly include my unique parts. In fact I don't want you to see me as what's between my legs. It's nobody's damn business except mine or whoever is in my bed. I know very few T folks that want to indentify with what's between their legs and this type of self victimization just draws attention to that. I call shenanigans!